How do you try to be friends with the child you gave up to a better familly for

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   lorena19690posted 13 years ago

   How do you try to be friends with the child you gave up to a better familly for good reason.
   
   i loved that child so much,that I tryed so hard to not to think of my self,but of the chid,i might have done wrong in my past,but now im doing so much better but it seems she dont want nothing to do with me,how can I get that child out of my mind evryday?i have so much love in my heart for this child.im trying to be such a better person.and so many ppl in my life are very proud of me now,how can I prove to her im a better person,and would just love to hear about her life and how shes doing?i love her so very much.

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   Colten Garrettposted 13 years ago

   This is not going to be easy. The first step you can do is find out everything about this child, what she likes, colors, food etc. Then Tell her how you feel. Love is powerful, learn how to use it, start a conversation on what she likes, talking is a tool you can use, don't set around and ask your self what you can do. Put into action what you can. Have fath, trust me "in time" she will come around. My real mother tried to kill me more then once, but after a while I started to get questions about her, and for the first time in 15 years I decited to meet her. When I say 15 years don't let that bug you anything could happen before then. depiending on the age, look her up on facebook try to get her to add you. throw little things at her like "how you doing" or "I no I havn't been their so I no you hate me" When I say I no you hate me that was an example which will lead to her getting her feelings out of how she feels and start from their.

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