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Whats your idea of the perfect date?

  1. Stevennix2001 profile image84
    Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago

    I'm just asking to see how many of you single folks out there, wouldn't mind sharing your thoughts on what you think the perfect date should be like, in your own opinion.  Or if you've already had it, then please tell us your story of this perfect date.  And please folks, don't skip on the details.

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      cosetteposted 7 years ago in reply to this
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        someoneyouknowposted 7 years ago in reply to this
      2. Stevennix2001 profile image84
        Stevennix2001posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        good answer

    2. TammyK profile image56
      TammyKposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      my perfect date would be simply being be the person I genuinely liked.  For more specifics.  Maybe dinner where we both dressed up, especially if it would be both of our first time.  a moonlit walk, if it's cold outside he offers his coat or jacket.  candles, privacy and a good kisser.  and a man who is equally passionate, not selfish or likes to skip or rush foreplay

    3. Singlesstreetlife profile image68
      Singlesstreetlifeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      The perfect date for me when I was single was being taken out by my then fiancee to the park and then rowing on the lake.

      Why is was perfect for me was because we were just being ourselves.  We were relaxed, no airs and graces, no need to impress each other, we just chilled out in each others company.

      The whole time was spent talking and finding out about one another.  It was such fun.

    4. Rayalternately profile image59
      Rayalternatelyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Show up naked, bring beer. big_smile

    5. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      An idea. smile

    6. Angela Khan profile image75
      Angela Khanposted 7 weeks ago in reply to this

      A picnic on a beach side sounds nice. It needs to involve wine and cheese. And a conversation about how we can become better human beings. That sounds like a good time to me.

      1. Perspycacious profile image75
        Perspycaciousposted 5 weeks ago in reply to this

        Nice thinking.

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      kellyksposted 3 weeks ago in reply to this

      in the life of any girl, perfect date seems like the most exciting thing. A prince charming riding on a white horse is quite old school. But I was looking forward for my perfect date in the similar fashion and I got lucky that he asked me out for prom night. the date of prom came and it came very soon and he was supposed to come pick me up. Also I forgot to mention that I had a cat back then and she was pretty attached to me. Just a day before my prom she fell sick and didn’t allow me to leave her side at all. But now it was prom with my dream man and I had to go. The doorbell rang and my mom went to answer it meanwhile Ginger (my cat) also woke up. I went downstairs to greet him and as she sensed that I was about to leave she leapt and feel cutting my dress from the back. It was so embarrassing and I almost ended up crying which he sensed and calmed me down. I got up to change and he picked up my cat started playing with her which I really fell for. Eventually he told me that my kitty needs to be with me and even he needs to be with me so we stayed at my house. We had a lot of fun, my parents instantly liked him and wanted me to be married to him since he was so caring.  After about 4 years we got married and we have been very happy since then. We have 1 beautiful daughter and we both love her to the core. Even till day we remember that night and laugh about it.

  2. Jery profile image57
    Jeryposted 7 years ago

    I think the perfect date is one where you both seem to "click" or connect on every level. You know where you kinda know what the other person is going to say even before they say it.

  3. prettydarkhorse profile image62
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    hi, there is no such thing as perfect date, just be true to yourself, listen to your date and be sincere, and if your a man, pay the bill,,,lol

    and if you have time you can read this one

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    1. lovelife999 profile image61
      lovelife999posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      you have quite broad knowledge about perfact date? how come?

  4. floating mind profile image80
    floating mindposted 7 years ago

    That's easy.  For me, the perfect date would be, "just spending time together."  It does not matter what we are doing; from working on a puzzle together, or dining out, or a movie, or cross-country skiing ... as long as we do it together, it's a perfect date for me!

    1. Dame Scribe profile image60
      Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I 2nd the e-motion! big_smile bravo, lol

    2. Dame Scribe profile image60
      Dame Scribeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I 2nd this e-motion big_smile lol lol

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    When I was single it was always the one that put out.

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Hahahahhahaha most definitely Ralwus

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    It would be a nice day doing something fun and a nice meal. Then not being told to,"Stop-it! If you don't stop I'm going to kick your butt!"

  7. HCOvolleyballbabe profile image55
    HCOvolleyballbabeposted 7 years ago

    My perfect date would be spending the whole day and night with them. First i would have him pick me up from my house and take me to a pretty beach to spend the evening in the water, walking, collecting shells, teasing eachother, playing volleyball. Then when we'd get hungry he'd take out the lunch he picked out for us something cute with strawberries so he could feed it to me, kind of like a picnic on the beach. Then as it go t darker we'd lay out on a blanket watching the sunset, until we kissed. Then we'd go in our hotel room that he booked for us, and we'd lay down next to eachother and watch a movie on the television while snuggling. Then we'd fall asleep together,and wake up to eachother smile

  8. blondepoet profile image74
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    A guy who has teeth,not shorter than me,was not born Martha and who buys me prawns instead of flowers.

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      Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      it would be nice if he said thank you, as an added bonus!!!! smile

      1. blondepoet profile image74
        blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Oh most definitely must have manners lol.

  9. Ivorwen profile image79
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    I want my husband to take me out for a long ride via horse back to a secluded spot along a river or stream for a picnic* and lots of talking, playing and loving. 

    *The picnic must be prepared and careful thought out, not caught or an MRE.

    1. lovelife999 profile image61
      lovelife999posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      well, tis is the quite imagination need to be true. If you wish this you must realize your importance and try to be her girlfriend instead of wife. good luck !!

  10. Jonathan Janco profile image74
    Jonathan Jancoposted 7 years ago

    The one where I have no idea it's a date! I worked in a mall when I was much much younger. It was one of those women's clothing stores. I was the only male on staff. They needed someone to climb the ladders and put away the stock and hang the promotionals. That was me. We could only go on lunch two at a time. One day, when I was being assissted by one of my young lady co-workers, we got to a point where there were no more deliveries coming in that day. So I said to her, "before I take down all these signs, why don't we go get some lunch?" Purely a co-worker to co-worker kind of lunch, as far as I was concerned. We talked and ate, and I didn't think much of it. Turns out, she wasn't taking lunch. She was at the end of her shift. I put my right hand out for a friendly handshake because it was the first day I really encountered her. She took my right with her left hand and pushed it aside, wrapped her arms around me and kissed me. Not a friendly kiss, more like a 'let's be way more than friendly' kind of kiss.
    I was delightedly shocked!

  11. Colebabie profile image59
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    April 23, 2005

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    philip carey 61posted 7 years ago

    ...one where she looks at me with big brown eyes and says, "I adore men who leave the toilet seat up and drop their dirty clothes just anywhere in the house."

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image62
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      was laughing at this one, men always never do that, all the thre men I have been with, they all do that and I have to clean after...

      perfect date?? just a coffee and good conversation and you never want to end it..

  13. prettydarkhorse profile image62
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    NY giants are winning LOL

  14. prettydarkhorse profile image62
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    anybody here??

    1. weblog profile image50
      weblogposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lol For a date?

      1. lovelife999 profile image61
        lovelife999posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        yes pls tello >

  15. Hanna Bambina profile image56
    Hanna Bambinaposted 7 years ago

    I've never been on a date so I wouldn't know...

    1. lovelife999 profile image61
      lovelife999posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      why so?

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    Leta Sposted 7 years ago

    Well, I think it's a little different when you are in a relationship.  We've been trying to get away to go to Santa Fe now for a couple years and it never happens. !

    So that's it:  Christmas in Santa Fe when they light the place up, looking at galleries, listening to music and dancing.  And hopefully a nice hotel with a good bed, wink.

    1. real relationship profile image55
      real relationshipposted 7 years ago

      Perfect date? You can make it in whatever way you want it to be perfect as long as you enjoy being together. Perfect!

    2. H.C Porter profile image78
      H.C Porterposted 7 years ago

      Someone opening the car door for me- saying I look beautiful not insulting me when i give an opinion/ although arguing their opinion is acceptable and of course chewing with their mouth closed.
      That would be a great date...  smile

    3. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago

      For me it would be a guy who brought me prawns instead of flowers and hand fed them to me in the spa with a bottle of delectable white wine.

      1. H.C Porter profile image78
        H.C Porterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        if you meet a guy like that with a brother like that> send him to TX  wink

      2. Sean Leong profile image77
        Sean Leongposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        No problem, I can do it for me. Any time.

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      ralwusposted 7 years ago

      prawns will kill you eventually. I prefer feeding her truffles.

    5. secondreview profile image61
      secondreviewposted 7 years ago

      A perfect date is when you've really enjoyed the other person's company and walk through your door with a smile plastered on your face.

    6. Alessia Amnesia profile image56
      Alessia Amnesiaposted 7 years ago

      The perfect first date is the date that wasn't really a date to begin with. Accidental first dates are, in my opinion, the most romantic and enjoyable.

    7. Diskobolos profile image56
      Diskobolosposted 7 years ago

      The one where you just met at some random place (so I guess it's not exactly a date as you did not really arrange it) and there's such chemistry between you going on that you decide to do something a bit crazy together. Like both do the same tattoo on the same place or whatever... after that you just spend the wild night building on that chemistry...

    8. Bill Manning profile image70
      Bill Manningposted 7 years ago

      The most perfect dates I have ALREADY been on were when I took her to a theme park here in Orlando. At a theme park you can be yourself, wear casual clothes and have a great time.

      You really see each other as they really are, having fun on rides and you have lots of time to talk as your in line for the rides. It just really cuts all the crap and shows each other how they each really are.

      1. Diskobolos profile image56
        Diskobolosposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Hey Bill, did you hold the door open for her?smile

        1. Bill Manning profile image70
          Bill Manningposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Yup, even opened her car door for her! wink

          1. Diskobolos profile image56
            Diskobolosposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            That is fine, as long as you opened her the door of your apartment afterward.smile

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      sheehanentposted 7 years ago

      Ive been on at least one undred dates and its typically difficult to leave a date and say, Wow this was perfect. One instance I had went like this. The date was sponaneous, spur of the moment. Ive been talking to this girl for some time over the phone and I finally said, Lets meet up and get some coffee. I said coffee because it was very late at night and neither of us could sleep. We met up for the first time and our conversations were endless. Time went by faster than it ever had and before I knew it I was there for over 3 hours. We had endless conversations, a lot of laughs, no interuptions, eye gazing, and in the end we felt like we knew each other for ever; easliy said that there was a second date to come. In the end she wasnt my type... long story.

    10. nyalawoe profile image55
      nyalawoeposted 7 years ago

      CHEMISTRY!!!! That's all I need
      Rarely do I meet a man that gives me butterflies anymore
      Don't know if I'm jaded, but we could literally do whatever if thers chemistry and great energy between us

    11. Will Say Plenty profile image57
      Will Say Plentyposted 7 years ago

      Any date in which I am the male and not a lot of money is spent by anyone would be a perfect date!  (Trust me!)

    12. h.a.borcich profile image60
      h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago

      I was never one to call going to the movies a great date. A great date needs to involve sharing of yourself and learning about who you are with...interacting. My best date was in a coffee shop smile Holly

    13. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years ago

      Snuggling and caressing in front of a warm fire place in a beautiful log cabin in the middle of a rain forest, complete with a spa bath and champagne.
      A beautiful glass ceiling that shows the evening skies.

      http://i182.photobucket.com/albums/x169/Solo2552/Holidays/fireplace.gif

      1. Hokey profile image61
        Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        This and BP!  tongue

        1. blondepoet profile image74
          blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          There is one just like this an hour away!!!

          1. Hokey profile image61
            Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Oh yeah!  Where pray tell! smile

            1. blondepoet profile image74
              blondepoetposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              I'll show you.

              1. Hokey profile image61
                Hokeyposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Can't wait!  tongue

    14. GoodnewsBassey profile image60
      GoodnewsBasseyposted 4 weeks ago

      my perfect date for me is to be sincere to my mate always.

    15. realtalk247 profile image71
      realtalk247posted 3 weeks ago

      Perfect date is spending time with someone you love.  Someone that gets you, flaws and all.  Someone you love despite their flaws and all.  It's the feeling of being comfortable with someone that gets you. 
      To quote Anthony Hamilton - It's simple....having you near me.

     
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