what's your idea of a perfect second date?

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   Stevennix2001posted 13 years ago

   seriously, i'd like to know, as i never made it past the first date.  lol.  therefore, what would be your idea of the perfect SECOND date after you successfully made a good impression on the first one.

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      lady_love158posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      He takes me to dinner and gives me the money before he drops me off without getting any! heehee

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         Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

         lol. thats cold there lady.  lol.

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            lady_love158posted 13 years agoin reply to this

            LOL! I know but I was feeling silly and couldn't resist!

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               Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

               lol.  that's cool. i thought it was funny too, so i liked that comment. i just couldn't believe someone would say it.

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                  lady_love158posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  Especially a lady?

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                     Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     i meant in general.  sorry.  should've been more clear.

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   DoorMattnomoreposted 13 years ago

   no clue, never been on a first date....good luck guy.
   
   I would guess that if the first date was good, repeat that?

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      well thanks. however, im not going on any second date with anyone. i just wanted to open up this forum to see what others will say.  besides, i can always use the advice later on if i ever do find some girl to go out with me. lol.

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   DoorMattnomoreposted 13 years ago

   well..I am a girl, Ive never been on a date but I can say the things that I would like to do if ever taken on one....if it helps?
   
   I would say, the guy should not be really negative about himself or really overly "Im so great". I dont want to fight to get one second of attention, but I dont want to deal with  fake compliments either.
   
   For you Steven, I would think going to the movies with the right girl, would be an awesome date. If you find a girl with similar taste in movies...just treat her the same way you treat us all here on HP. Really listen, be honest, kind and considerate. DONT FAKE IT!!!! Soo...movies, first date, real fun..second date? step up a notch with dinner first?

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      wow, that's some very good advice. thanks doormattnomore.  that really helps me out a lot.  by the way, im kind of surprised a lovely gal like yourself never went on a date though. i would've figured some lucky guy would've asked you out by now.

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   WryLiltposted 13 years ago

   Sex?

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      are you saying people should have sex on a second date?

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         WryLiltposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Yes. Precisely.

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            Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

            really? wow, that's interesting thanks wrylit.  you want to go out then sometime for a few dates?

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               WryLiltposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               Haha. I'm married. But since the break between relationships is usually a few weeks or months, I'm sure both parties would be thinking it.
               
               They're both too polite to say it and too busy buttering each other up on the first date. So the second date it is!

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                  Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  oh you are?  sorry. i didn't know.  well your husband is a lucky guy then, and your right.  most people probably do think that way, but probably don't act on it most of the time due to consideration or whatever.  anyways, thanks for the advice.

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   BRIAN SLATERposted 13 years ago

   a BJ and full english breakfast

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

        dare i ask what the full english breakfast is.

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   xixi12posted 13 years ago

   a second date should be ermmmm. Buy me a nice dress to wear to the second date. It has to be an exclusive restaurant.

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