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Your boyfriend left you for another girl and his so-called "dream life"

  1. Esther Earl profile image56
    Esther Earlposted 6 years ago

    Your boyfriend left you for another girl and his so-called "dream life"

    but after months contacted to go back to you, although he is blaming you for almost everything, will you forgive & accept him as if nothing happened?

  2. nightwork4 profile image61
    nightwork4posted 6 years ago

    let me just say, if you forgive him and take him back you're a fool.

  3. pmorries profile image77
    pmorriesposted 6 years ago

    I would not use the word fool to describe you, if you forgive him. I would use the word human, or I would say that  the act of taking him back is foolish. In closing, you deserve better and let him pay for the consequences of his own decisions.

  4. teyeger82 profile image77
    teyeger82posted 6 years ago

    If he has done it once, he will do it again. You will always be responsible for everything that goes wrong in his life and the grass will always be greener for him somewhere else. Both of you are responsible for your own happiness. You need to not make a mistake that will jeopardize your happiness and he needs to stop thinking that it is somebody else's job to make him happy. And, it's fine to forgive but don't forget and don't go back!

    1. Esther Earl profile image56
      Esther Earlposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      thanks teyeger82, yes you are right. It's nice to know your opinion to broaden one's perspective. We should also protect ourselves.

  5. savvydating profile image96
    savvydatingposted 5 years ago

    He is blaming you and wants you back at the same time? Sweet girl, you can do better and you know it. When he calls, don't even bother picking up the phone, unless it's to press Delete.

 
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