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How to know if she is not the one you are looking for in a man or woman?

  1. Mark Johann profile image58
    Mark Johannposted 5 years ago

    How to know if she is not the one you are looking for in a man or woman?

    Looking for in a man or woman?

  2. Globetrekkermel profile image75
    Globetrekkermelposted 5 years ago

    I am a woman so i can answer in a woman's perspective.Women have they usually they call women's intuition. Go with that. Usually ,your instincts are right.

  3. multiculturalsoul profile image81
    multiculturalsoulposted 5 years ago

    I have been engaged three times. I am NOT bragging. I knew the first woman was "wrong" for me because she slighted my profession (teaching). She kept encouraging me to get a real job. I knew the second woman was wrong for me because she laughed at ALL my jokes--and I'm not that funny. She was more interested in the surface things in life. She tried to dress me a certain way that made me look and feel ridiculous. I "kept" the third woman (since 1989) since she respects my profession, laughs only at my rare funny jokes, and accepts my appearance.

  4. Rohit Kalyani profile image51
    Rohit Kalyaniposted 5 years ago

    according to me his or her attitude towards me and my family.

  5. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 5 years ago

    Only you (the indvidual) can answer that question!
    Each of us selects our own friends, lovers, and spouse. You first of all have to (know yourself) very well in order to know what you want and need in a mate. Once you (know) what you're looking for it makes life a lot easier. The goal is always to find someone that (naturally agrees) with you on the major things in life and shares your same values. It takes some time being with a person to determine this. Having chemistry/attraction is also very important.
    Last but not least: In order for her/him to be "the one" (they) must also (see you) as being "the one". The underlying definition of  "soul mates" are people that have (mutual feelings) for one another and want the same things for their relationship/marriage. I remind people of this whenever I hear someone complain about their mate not wanting to get married. If you want to marry them and they don't want to marry you it's clear they (aren't) your "soul mate"!

  6. profile image48
    knowledgeablejoposted 5 years ago

    As a gay man my experience has taught me I dont know in the beginning.  As
    dating usually eliminates the duds. Each day I wake up and tell my partner "I love you" and each night the same, when a couple can do this and be happy with each other and support each others decisions and move forward as a couple and individually this could be the right choice.