Do you believe we have one true soulmate in our lifetime?

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  1. Anna Haven profile image86
    Anna Havenposted 5 years ago

    Do you believe we have one true soulmate in our lifetime?

    Do you believe we have one soulmate or are there a number of potential people out there whom we could happily spend eternity with and we just find one of them?

  2. jpcmc profile image89
    jpcmcposted 5 years ago

    Right now I'm inclined to believe that I found my one true soul mate.  I'm married to her right now. In the next lifetime, I think it would be a great adventure finding her then spending the rest of my life with her all over again.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      That really is romantic and so nice. Thankyou jpcmc smile

  3. billybuc profile image87
    billybucposted 5 years ago

    Right now I do...you couldn't have sold me on it six years ago. smile

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thankyou billybuc.  Everytime you 'talk' of Bev on here it is so clear you have definately found your soulmate and your love is displayed in every word. smile

    2. jpcmc profile image89
      jpcmcposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Interesting...I'm sure there's a pretty cool story here.  smile

  4. edhan profile image60
    edhanposted 5 years ago

    Soulmate is hard to come around but surprisingly, my wife is my personal soulmate where we practically share everything in life. We are like a couple, good friend and playmate.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      It sounds like you have certainly found a kindred soul. Thankyou edhan smile

  5. bethperry profile image92
    bethperryposted 5 years ago

    I believe so, because I have been with mine for almost 20 years. But I suppose some people don't have just one soulmate, whether their soul isn't ready for this or just by spiritual choice.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Twenty years is a long time you must have found the right person. Thankyou bethperry smile

  6. Escobana profile image73
    Escobanaposted 5 years ago

    If I would still believe there's only one true soulmate, I'd had to giggle about it because I have been saying this about my last 7 long term relationships.

    I do believe I haven't met THAT person yet though I imagine there are about 2 or 3 walking around the globe, who would be a perfect match.

    I'm curious to find out when they cross my path and in the meantime I'm enjoying my single, adventurous life every single day:-) No hurry, no worries and a lot of love around me anyway.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      You are just searching for the right one, thankyou for answering Escobana smile

  7. jonnycomelately profile image82
    jonnycomelatelyposted 5 years ago

    So what do you say to a man who has never had even one?

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Maybe you just haven't found them yet jonnycomelately. Who knows what tommorow may bring though.
      Thankyou for taking the time to read and answer smile

    2. jonnycomelately profile image82
      jonnycomelatelyposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Anna. I prefer to accept that I will never have one, and that the world is big enough and diverse enough that we can all be valid in our various situations and conditions..

    3. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      You are absolutely right and that is the answer I should have given  back to you after your first comment.
      You surprised me with this answer today and reminded me that contentment shouldn't  ever depend upon a third party.
      Thanks jonnycomelately.

  8. stanwshura profile image72
    stanwshuraposted 5 years ago

    No - I do not believe in the idea of a soul mate - or destiny in general.  I think that life provides opportunities to experience the world in many different ways and settings, and to meet all kinds of people.  I don't think that there is just one perfect match for a life partner.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      I dont believe in only one soul mate either stanwshura.
      I think there are  different  potential good matches. Thankyou for answering smile

  9. missbrittany profile image61
    missbrittanyposted 5 years ago

    I feel like there is someone for everyone, whether it's only ONE true soulmate 100% perfect match for you..i dont know.
    But my belief is that if you feel as if this person is literally the other piece of your soul, he/she is your soulmate.

    but there billions of people in this world...
    you find your own soulmate. there are alot of potentials.
    but "soulmate" to me is a personal choice.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thankyou for reading and answering missbrittany smile

  10. profile image59
    DJ Andersonposted 5 years ago

    Anna, this is a very good question.

    I felt that I had married my soul mate in my first marriage.  He must have felt
    differently, as he was still shopping around while we were still married.  He is
    on his 5th. or 6th. wife.  Hopefully, this is the one.

    Then, I met the man of my dreams.  I adored everything about him.  Then, the  years brought many changes to each of us.  We share very few interest at this
    point of our lives. 

    Do I believe we have one true soul mate?  No, I believe we meet someone with common interests, form a bond and find some sexual chemistry.  All the while,
    in the back of each person's mind, they are wondering if they could do better.

    When the decision is made that neither can do better.  The bond solidifies.

    I do believe than many couples match up well, and have held on to that
    special something over the years.  They are truly blessed.
    DJ.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thankyou very much DJ for reading and for answering smile

  11. Jade89 profile image81
    Jade89posted 5 years ago

    Yes I do.
    I spent 5 years with someone 'trying to make it work' and it just never did. I spend 5 years with the same person and still felt like I never really new him. I broke free from the relationship and spent 1 month with the next person and felt like I'd known him all my life. After 1 month we knew it was 'meant to be'. We're now engaged to be married in December after less than a year. I feel for him what I never felt even one ounce for the guy I was with for 5 years. I didn't know feeling this way was possible.
    We're so similar it's amazing. We have the same type of personalities, same outlook on life, same sleep patterns lol I could go on and on forever. 
    The fact that we were in the same first grade class and then bumped into each other 18 years later and totally hit it off feels like no 'co-incidence' to me.
    I really in no way believed in soul-mates until I met him.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Jade89. That is interesting how you met again after all those years.

  12. HeatherH104 profile image83
    HeatherH104posted 5 years ago

    I think there isn't just one person but many you can have that soulmate feeling for. I've felt that toward two people, one I met when I was too young to marry, then distance and ambitions got in the way. The other I've been married to for 10 years. There are ups and downs, but our life together is wonderful. I do think if circumstances were different I could have had a great life with the first guy too.

    If you are looking for a soulmate, good luck! I am confident you will find him/her.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      I think as you do Heather H104 that there are different potential soulmates for us all.
      Thankyou smile I have had Mr Anna for a long time and although he infuriates me at times I wouldn't swap him for anyone else. So maybe I already have smile

  13. myefforts profile image82
    myeffortsposted 5 years ago

    I believe so. You always love to spend time with your soulmate. I found the perfect one in my wife. We always love to spend time together. I think this is it.

    1. Anna Haven profile image86
      Anna Havenposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Thankyou for reading and answering myefforts smile

 
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