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Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?

  1. jabelufiroz profile image73
    jabelufirozposted 4 years ago

    Do you think past relationship secrets should always be kept hidden?

  2. simpleroma profile image71
    simpleromaposted 4 years ago

    It depends, if it's a secret that you think will impact your current partner, he/she better find that out from you and not from other people. Also, all secrets will be revealed in time, it's just a matter of timing. So then better reveal your secret if necessary, only if it will help in the improvement of your current relationship. Reveal it in proper time or in good ambiance, when your partner is in a good mood then you will see that the impact of revealing a secret is not bad at all, based from my own experience. Cheers.

  3. DDE profile image27
    DDEposted 4 years ago

    Secrets are better left unspoken of if it would spoil your relationship, just as  certain things are better left untold.

    1. dashingscorpio profile image88
      dashingscorpioposted 4 years agoin reply to this

      Even STDs like herpes or HIV? Some secrets should be told in order to protect others. Another example is if someone has an ex who is mentally unstable with a violent history. They could show up out of the blue and attack you both.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 4 years ago

    It really depends on the "secret". If someone has a STD, children, or criminal past, domestic violence issues, former porn star or escort it would be nice to know those things in advance.
    Being a man there aren't too many details I want to know that took place between a woman and her last man/husband.

  5. peachpurple profile image83
    peachpurpleposted 4 years ago

    yes, i absolutely agree with DDE, past secrets ought to be left alone, buried under the closet and never reveal no matter what happened. People look down on you, close ones fear of you or may even make fun of the secrets too.