How can I be and is it possible to be more intellectual with my significant other
After 2 months of getting to know and fall in love with eachother online. Drove 3,000 miles to be with me. My fiancé and I have been together for about a year now. Recently i've been told by him that All of the things I talk about are repeats of stuff I've already mentioned, explained or told to him before. It seems as if he's become uninterested in even conversating with me period and has recently been pointing out every flaw in everything that I say and/ Or how I'm saying it. Has he become uninterested in me all together. Is there a way to spark his interest in conversating with me again?
Get yourself some stuff to do. Join some meetups or take up new hobbies, go have experiences without him. Then at least you can fetch home some new tales. Make sure he has his own life too - maybe he's cranky because he left everything behind and has only you there, and just needs to feel more rooted in his new community. So each of you do more fun stuff, but don't feel like you need to do everything together.
If that doesn't work and you break up, at least you'll have a bunch of friends and fun things to console you
Read books then discuss them with each other. Go explore the world as a team while you're learning new things.
Your problem is not intellectual conversation, it's about reactivity. Look up this author and READ: David Schnarch.
by India Arnold6 years ago
Why is it that "uninterested" people are also "uninteresting" people?
by Danvantari5 years ago
What does it mean when he says, "later"?
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