Is it just fine if I'm going to court the bestfriend of my ex-girlfriend?

  1. Edmar Sardon profile image56
    Edmar Sardonposted 3 years ago

    Is it just fine if I'm going to court  the bestfriend of my ex-girlfriend?

    After our break up with my ex-gf, her bestfriend comforts me oftenly and gave me a lot of advise. She's very sweet and kind thats why I think I fell in love with her. Should I court her? Please help me..

  2. dashingscorpio profile image86
    dashingscorpioposted 3 years ago

    She has a great deal of say in whether you become a couple or not.
    Don't be surprised if she declines. A lot of folks believe it's a cardinal sin to date their best friend's exes unless they're given permission.
    It may also be an instance where you are going after what is "convenient" for you rather than getting back out there and attempting to meet new people. You're better off running in different circles from your ex.
    Lastly you want to make sure your interest in her is not due to the fact that she has been helping you through the grieving process. It's not uncommon for patients of therapists to project emotional feelings towards them.

  3. DDE profile image25
    DDEposted 3 years ago

    Sometimes comforting can be mistaken for many mixed emotions. You got rethink your decision. Start a friendship and see where it takes you.