Is love restriction or is it freedom?

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   Mahesh Krishnanposted 10 years ago

   Is love restriction or is it freedom?

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   SilentMagentaposted 10 years ago

   Love is suppose to be freedom. Just because you share your life with someone else doesn't mean you lose yours. Everything you do when your single you should be able to enjoy with your spouse. All girls are not the same when it comes to the No Nos in a relationship. For example, some girls say no strip clubs and some love them. If you're in a relationship that makes you feel restricted thats not a good thing.

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   dashingscorpioposted 10 years ago

   It's probably a little bit of both.
   Being in love can be exhilarating. Having someone to confide in through life's ups and downs who is trustworthy makes one feel they are not "all alone". Emotional security is like having insurance. Having someone you can count on is liberating!
   On the other hand being "in love" or in a relationship also means one has to be (considerate) of their mate. It's not all about "you" and what you want anymore! Some people find it very restrictive when they feel obligated to compromise or let their mate have their way on a particular occasion. Sharing is caring.
   Relationships are more about "Us & We" not "You & Me".
   Who you select for a mate has a lot to do with how free or restricting love is.
   The goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least have a mutual depth of love and desire for one another.
   Like attracts like in the long run and opposites attracts divorce attorneys!

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   Link10103posted 10 years ago

   Restriction in the sense that you can't date other men/women, but if you are actually in love with your partner I can't imagine someone would consider that a restriction.

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