Whomever suggests "taking a break" is essentially saying;
"I'm not sure if (you) are "the one" for me."
Essentially they want to put you "on hold" while they make up their mind about you and the relationship. Most of them don't want you to date or see other people even though they themselves are using this time to evaluate "their other options". Allowing them to do this gives them power over you as they keep you waiting in limbo.
Lets face it, "a break" is a breakup!
Some people have used the strategy of "taking a break" while knowing full well they're moving on!
They're simply trying to keep their soon to be ex from freaking out by giving them some (false hope). A couple of weeks role by and then they break the news to them that "they've decided" to walk away.
In other instances people have used the "break" to have flings with other people. This may be with new people or even their exes.
In their mind it's not "cheating" since "We were on a break from each other". There have been some instances of high profile male celebrities who have conceived what are now called "break babies" with other women outside of their relationship or marriage.
No couple resolves their problems by being apart from one another unless breaking up is the solution!
If married couples took a "break" every time issues arose someone would have to have a bag packed sitting by the door. If you walk out stay out.
"Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
- Oscar Wilde
If someone tells you they need a break from you then clearly they don't think you're all that "special". One man's opinion!
by M Carnahan5 years ago
I'm in my fourth year of college. Spring semester starts the 14th but I really don't want to continue taking classes right now. I've changed my major twice since beginning college 4 years ago so I have a wide variety of...
by Purches Power8 months ago
Hi Hubbers,I have edited this article five times , each time it hasn't been deemed good enough, and yet is has scored higher than my two previous articles. I am close to giving it all up, its just not worth the time or...
by swapna1237 years ago
I am new to hub pages with 3 hubs in the last 4 days. Individually, my hubs have a decent score, but the hub score of my profile is going down drastically. I would really appreciate if someone can give me a feedback on...
by Abimbola Akinbuwa-Onwueme2 months ago
What does "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" mean?
by Bruce A. Beaudet10 months ago
Which of the 10 commandments do you think people break the most frequently?Please explain your answer.
by Cristina5 months ago
When guys say the want to be left alone do they really mean it?I think a lot of girls are like me, when I say I don't want to talk to anybody, I usually do want to talk to someone. Is it different for men?
Copyright © 2018 HubPages Inc. and respective owners.
Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners.
HubPages® is a registered Service Mark of HubPages, Inc.