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Why do we fall in love ? why sex is not enough ?how you finally choose your life

  1. Anil Nathta profile image61
    Anil Nathtaposted 2 years ago

    Why do we fall in love ? why sex is not enough ?how you finally choose your life partner?

    in school we all like girls we find them attractive and cute ,you fall in love with them, the same thing will happen again in your college days and even after that so on.....every time when ever you come to close to a girl you think she is your true life partner and but after doing sex  couple of times  you find  her boring.this thing will take many times ,but your suddenly at a certain stage or time you find a girl beautiful ,cute your dream girl even doing sex many times or not even single time.From where we come to decide that she is not your infatuation ,But she is the one you were waiting

  2. Akriti Mattu profile image77
    Akriti Mattuposted 2 years ago

    I guess that's the whole point of 'growing' in life. Once you meet the right person, things just fall in place.

  3. Anil Nathta profile image61
    Anil Nathtaposted 2 years ago

    @akriti mattu
    how will you identify the person is right for u...every times when ever you think that you are in love finally  u turn out break up with that person

    1. Akriti Mattu profile image77
      Akriti Mattuposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      You can't identify. You get attached to people over time. Relationships are investment of one's sincerity and time. It is not to be taken for granted. The more mature and evolved you are, the better is your relationship. As for break ups, sure happen

    2. dashingscorpio profile image88
      dashingscorpioposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Each of us gets to choose our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
      You get to have your own list of traits you want in a mate. Dating allows you to discover if they are what you're looking for and vice versa. They have to see you as being "the one".

  4. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 2 years ago

    Having sex is rarely the reason why a relationship ends.
    More often than not it's discovering you have little in common or simply don't want the same things. Very few teens in high school and young adults in college are ready to become their parents!
    Naturally it's unrealistic to expect teens and young adults to be focused on finding a "life partner". Most adults advise them not to.
    The thought of marriage, signing a 30 year mortgage loan, having children, and plopping down at a desk for the next 40 years until retirement for a 20 something year old is like watching their life flash before their eyes!
    Just because someone has no interest in marriage doesn't mean they have no desire for companionship, sexual intimacy, dating, or having fun.
    In order for people to fall in love they have to have a certain mindset that is "open" to doing so. The old adage: "Timing is everything" often applies. It's no unusual for people to sometimes think back to someone they dated and realize today that person would have made a great spouse. However at the time (they) were not ready to settle down.
    Ultimately the goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least there is a mutual depth of love and desire for one another.
    Truth be told when it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success. If this were not so we'd all be married to our high school sweethearts!
    Dating is an exploratory process to figure out who you are as well as what it is you want in addition to verifying if this person is right for you.
    If having sex was all that mattered then no one would get married! One can pay attractive people for sexual services without complicating their life trying to meet another's expectations.
    In the end most people want love, affection, and the emotional security that comes with having a stable relationship or marriage.

 
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