How to deal with very much tangled situation in relationship?

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   AlluriMaahiSharmaposted 9 years ago

   How to deal with very much tangled situation in relationship?
   
   My boyfriend is already engages to someone and he never told me about this. Now when I know he is not letting me go;just saying he is not ready to live without me;and when I ask him to leave his previous girl he is not ready to that too. He says he had some promises with him and cant break her heart, Now tell me what should I do. He is not going to leave that girl. :-(

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   Alan Graceposted 9 years ago

   There should be sincerity and a commitment to just one person. Your life should be like this. A boy should be sincere to just one girl and vice versa. An insincere life is wrong. Deception and insincerity is rampant everywhere.
   You need to take a strong step and become independent every body deserves a better Life rather than running around a person who will never be yours sincerely.
   dadabhagwan.org/scientific-solutions/relationship/live-a-happy-married-life/dating-and-marriage-guidance/

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      Express10posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Very true. Well said.

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   Express10posted 9 years ago

   The way to deal with this is to raise your standards and not deal with this type of deceptive behavior. The entire relationship you have was built on deception. Be done with him and find a truthful person who is truly up to your standards and actually free to mingle with you.

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      AlluriMaahiSharmaposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      you're right
      But now there's another situation. He is really being so sticky. Like ' i cant do it without you. I am not able to move on. He is saying this again and again.

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      Express10posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      That is just a game to keep you useful to him. The key word is "use." You are being used. You are truly worth more than this. Do not ever let anyone tell you or treat you otherwise. You can and will do better when you give him the boot.

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   dashingscorpioposted 9 years ago

   
   
   You said the following two things which should provide your answer.
   "My boyfriend is already engages to someone..."
   "He is not going to leave that girl. :-("
   "Now tell me what should I do." (Seriously???)
   You have three options essentially.
   You can happily be "the other woman". (He didn't propose to YOU!)
   You can sadly be "the other woman" hoping he'll dump her one day.
   You can walk away and find yourself a man who only wants YOU!
   My guess is lots of folks will tell you he's "no good", a "liar", "using you", or "playing with your emotions". However the reality is YOU get to (choose) your own friends, lovers, and spouse.
   You make it sound as if this is "up to HIM!"
   Once you became (informed) it stopped being about him.
   Stop behaving like you are a "passenger" in your own life!
   When he told you he "can't break {her} heart" he told you Everything YOU needed to know! He's not even "unhappily married".
   Don't blame him for hurting you if you decide to stay.
   "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
   - Oscar Wilde
   Any guy who makes you the "side piece" doesn't think you're  special.
   Bare in mind there are over 7 Billion people on this planet!
   Odds are (if) you wanted you could find yourself a new boyfriend.
   However it's really up to YOU to love yourself enough to believe you deserve better.

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      AlluriMaahiSharmaposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      actually yes, i choose to be free,  ,

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