How to deal with very much tangled situation in relationship?

Jump to Last Post 1-4 of 4 discussions (8 posts)
  1. AlluriMaahiSharma profile image73
    AlluriMaahiSharmaposted 2 years ago

    How to deal with very much tangled situation in relationship?

    My boyfriend is already engages to someone and he never told me about this. Now when I know he is not letting me go;just saying he is not ready to live without me;and when I ask him to leave his previous girl he is not ready to that too. He says he had some promises with him and cant break her heart, Now tell me what should I do. He is not going to leave that girl. :-(

  2. Alan Grace profile image60
    Alan Graceposted 2 years ago

    There should be sincerity and a commitment to just one person. Your life should be like this. A boy should be sincere to just one girl and vice versa. An insincere life is wrong. Deception and insincerity is rampant everywhere.
    You need to take a strong step and become independent every body deserves a better Life rather than running around a person who will never be yours sincerely.
    dadabhagwan.org/scientific-solutions/relationship/live-a-happy-married-life/dating-and-marriage-guidance/

    1. Express10 profile image89
      Express10posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Very true. Well said.

  3. Express10 profile image89
    Express10posted 2 years ago

    The way to deal with this is to raise your standards and not deal with this type of deceptive behavior. The entire relationship you have was built on deception. Be done with him and find a truthful person who is truly up to your standards and actually free to mingle with you.

    1. AlluriMaahiSharma profile image73
      AlluriMaahiSharmaposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      you're right
      But now there's another situation. He is really being so sticky. Like ' i cant do it without you. I am not able to move on. He is saying this again and again.

    2. Express10 profile image89
      Express10posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      That is just a game to keep you useful to him. The key word is "use." You are being used. You are truly worth more than this. Do not ever let anyone tell you or treat you otherwise. You can and will do better when you give him the boot.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image88
    dashingscorpioposted 2 years ago

    https://usercontent2.hubstatic.com/12950387_f260.jpg

    You said the following two things which should provide your answer.
    "My boyfriend is already engages to someone..."
    "He is not going to leave that girl. :-("
    "Now tell me what should I do." (Seriously???)
    You have three options essentially.
    You can happily be "the other woman". (He didn't propose to YOU!)
    You can sadly be "the other woman" hoping he'll dump her one day.
    You can walk away and find yourself a man who only wants YOU!
    My guess is lots of folks will tell you he's "no good", a "liar", "using you", or "playing with your emotions". However the reality is YOU get to (choose) your own friends, lovers, and spouse.
    You make it sound as if this is "up to HIM!"
    Once you became (informed) it stopped being about him.
    Stop behaving like you are a "passenger" in your own life!
    When he told you he "can't break {her} heart" he told you Everything YOU needed to know! He's not even "unhappily married".
    Don't blame him for hurting you if you decide to stay.
    "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."
    - Oscar Wilde
    Any guy who makes you the "side piece" doesn't think you're  special.
    Bare in mind there are over 7 Billion people on this planet!
    Odds are (if) you wanted you could find yourself a new boyfriend.
    However it's really up to YOU to love yourself enough to believe you deserve better.

    1. AlluriMaahiSharma profile image73
      AlluriMaahiSharmaposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      actually yes, i choose to be free,  ,

 
working

This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

Show Details
Necessary
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Features
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Marketing
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Statistics
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)