If u never have a girl friend, can you handle ...?
If u never have a girl friend, can you handle ...?
Image u are...let's say 25, due to some issues, you kept putting dating on hold, despite coming across number of nice girl u like and she like u too. Now ur personal problem, have been resolve and you stop putting dating on hold, but most girl closer to ur own age, would have been with quiet a few guys already and if u want a girl, that never dated, u need to search for 18 or 19 years old. As somebody who never dated, do you think you can handle the idea of been in a serious relationship, with a girl that have already been around the block, a few times and already had sex with a few guys?
Hopefully by the time one reaches their mid 20s and approaching 30 they're not so immature enough to hold someone's past experience against them especially if they're attracted to her.
Truth be told when it comes to love and relationships most of us (fail our way) to success! Very few people hit a homerun their first, second, or third time up at bat. If this were not the case we'd all be married to our high school sweethearts!
Generally speaking each breakup is a learning experience which helps us to discover what we really want and makes us more selective. Our "must list" evolves as we figure out what's important.
Odds are most of the people we date we would never marry anyway! Therefore their past is irrelevant for the most part.
It wouldn't be the woman's fault that he chose to live like a monk.
Lastly an experienced lover is usually a much better lover!
It's not a "competition".
You might as well just get out there and enjoy life!
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