Is it ok to wright about things that have happend in the past if you dont want y

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    manofdirtposted 2 years ago

    Is it ok to wright about things that have happend in the past if you dont want your wife to know

    I am talking about mental health type things and reasons things happend and the resalt of an insident that happend 22yrs ago .the affect it had on me.

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    tamarawilhiteposted 2 years ago

    The issue is whether it would affect her now. That you had a temporary reality break due to drug use isn't relevant today if you don't use drugs. If you had bouts of depression but it is over now, it isn't necessary. If you are taking psychiatric drugs for an ongoing condition now, it does matter.

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      manofdirtposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks for your in put it's not drugs it was an attack (assault )that left me with ptsd

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    kordell70posted 2 years ago

    If you wish to write about something in your past then you always have the right to.  However, please make sure to take into consideration how your story will affect not only you but your wife if you give out the details. For instance, if your wife is a politician and you did something while in a depressed state which could cost her an election then talk with her first. The problem with posting on the web is that stories have a way of coming back to you and loved ones when you least expect it. If your writing is a way to gain some catharsis then you may wish to write a journal, or write a fictional story based on your situation. If you want to write your story as is, then maybe you can create an account without listing your real name in the profile and slightly change certain details like the place where incidents occurred.

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      manofdirtposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you very much that's good advice .can people see my real name on this site ? I really appreciate your help

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    Cissy1946posted 2 years ago

    Why doesn't you wife already know the significant events of your life?

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