HI i dont know why but i like to be treated like woman by my wife. What is this? why this feeling?
I like the feeling and we have even discussed about the same. I like when she treats me like that. I dont like men so what is this? Am i a gay? I like to wear panties, bra and wish to wear skirts. but only when i m home. its getting difficult for both of us to understand these feelings. Please help.
I think only a psychiatrist can tell you exactly what is it all about.
Some people like to cross dress and it simply means that they like to cross dress. Don't be hard on yourself and don't try to over analyze the situation.
Someone who cross dresses in the privacy of their own home with their spouse most certainly does not need to see a psychiatrist. You are not mentally ill.
Don't worry. Tell your wife it is normal. Don't get hung up on what others might see as right or wrong.
No harm, no foul.
You answered your own question about if you are gay or not. You said before it that you were not attracted to men. Wanting to wear women's clothing does not necessarily have anything to do with your sexual orientation, especially if you are happily married to a woman. I do not know that answer as to why you enjoy cross dressing, but i honestly don't think it matters unless it is causing problems with your marriage. See a counselor if it is really causing major strife between you and your wife.
You are not gay, and you are not alone in these feelings.
Most men are the decision makers all day long at work. There is a correlation between stress levels on the job, and the degree of release needed at home to unwind.
It seems that wearing these items help you to unwind at night. If your wife is ok with this, then go with it. Ask her to help you pick out things to wear. Even go shopping with her and let her choose things to buy. Get some nice colors and items that feel nice against your skin.
I just bought my first skirt, and I like it.
you said that you dont like men which hints that you are not gay..but you also said that it is getting difficult for both of you so i think you need to get to an expert...
Well... feel fortunate you don't wish to wear a New York Yankee jersey and baseball cap.
Now THAT would be unforgiveable.
Some men, like yourself, like women to take the lead (be dominant) in certain situations. I've read that this is because it takes the pressure off the guy 'to perform' which enables them to relax and enjoy the experience.
There are even couples who go in for complete role reversal with the women wearing prosthesis (nudge nudge) to 'become' the male.
Google this phrase 'femdom'. You'll have to sift through a lot of porn but in amongst the naughty stuff you'll find sites which deal with this subject in a serious and helpful manner.
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