How do you know if a relationship is worth fighting for?
If you have to "fight" for a relationship it means both people don't want the same thing or there are (major) compatibility issues.
The goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least have a mutual depth of love and desire for one another.
Compatibility trumps compromise.
Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!
There is no amount of "work" or "communication" that can overcome being with someone who simply Does Not want what you want. Couples who are in agreement about the major things in life tend to be happier than those who are not in agreement.
Each of us gets to (choose) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them (as is) or move on.
Only (you) know what is "right" for (you).
Life is too short to be trying to "change water into wine".
by emotionalchick 7 years ago
We've been together for over 5 years, and I thought he was the one. We've always talked about our future, until the past year when I started realising that maybe that wasn't going to happen? Why is it that some couples can only be together for 2 years and know they want to spend the rest of...
by Mike Pugh 6 years ago
Is a love life, truly worth all the hassle that may come with it?Please describe your answer thoroughly & clearly. Maybe even include tips for others, to understand what you feel a love life should be about, such as making family commitments etc.....
by ii3rittles 7 years ago
Is love worth fighting for?In relationships; We all argue and disagree... But is love worth fighting for? If you constantly fight and get upset every week about something... Is it worth it to stay in a relationship, regardless of how your heart feels?
by ThunderKeys 7 years ago
What is the most important communication tip you would offer an emotionally distressed couple?
by swesley01 5 years ago
How do you know when to call a relationship quits? How far do you let it go in the name of Love?Does it mean that you do not love them anymore, or is it because you love them that you need to end it? When is the fighting and the stress of it all to much? I am at a cross roads. I have been with this...
by Kim Lam 6 years ago
How do you have "healthy fights" in a relationship?
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