How can you make your dating profile more desirable?
Most people on dating apps/websites are doing something wrong with their profile. This is why you may not be getting as many hits as you should be.
I don't use dating websites, but I read a lot of author profiles on blogs and such.
I think one of the most important things is to get a really good, well lit picture of yourself. Find a friend with a good camera and get them to take a nice picture of you. Don't edit it. You want it to look candid.
Use a good quality picture and have a positive outlook on life.
Naturally "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" so don't get caught up on trying to attract people who are naturally attracted to you. They're not meant for you.
The goal is to find someone who will love and appreciate you! Profiles without photos are usually skipped or overlooked.
Six common mistakes people make with online dating sites.
1.Selecting Without Researching (Not all sites are the same!)
It pays to do some research to determine the demographics of the people who use the site such as age, education, income level. gender ratio, and other qualities that (you) value.
2. Bad Profile Photo/Bad User Name
Group photos, ones with pets, children, weird facial expressions, or working too hard to be sexy are turn offs for a lot of people. Avoid user names that include "Queen", "King", "Prince" or other egocentric sounding names.
Anyone with over 30 pounds to lose should not say they: have a (few pounds) to lose. If someone were hitting you upside your head you would call 30 times a "few". If you're married or living with someone don't say: "It's complicated".
4. Asking for the world!
"Don't expect to sit next to the moon unless (you) are a star!"
5. Meeting too quickly
The quickest way to experience "burn out" is to waste time going out with everyone. You need to have a "screening process" to determine who is worth having a face to face meeting with. Take time getting to know people through the site, instant messaging, emails, and phone conversations prior to meeting. Not every resume is worthy of an interview!
6. Pushing for "Exclusive Status" Too Fast
Too many people spend time chasing a "relationship status" instead of allowing the individual they meet causes them to want to consider them to be relationship or spouse material. They HATE dating! The goal is to find "the right one" not "the next one". Rushing/forcing leads to making mistakes.
Each of us (chooses) our own friends, lovers, and spouse.
If you're having one bad dating experience after another maybe it's time you reexamine (your) mate selection process!
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