Bliss Sex

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  1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
    Miebakagh57posted 13 months ago

    How long should it take a man to last in bed? 30 minutes, or 60 minutes, or more? God, who create sex knows best its benefit for man and woman. Why are men not lasting a minimum of 30 minutes with their partner during sexual intercoure? The man is very quickly arose. What can he do? Both partners can help make it happen I believe. Let's discuss.

    1. wilderness profile image96
      wildernessposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Seems that God either made a mistake or a massive joke on the male sex, doesn't it?  Perhaps we should all, male and female, simply "suck it up" rather than try and thwart God's will.

      1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
        Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

        Wilderness, I disagree with your reply, or it is a joke. How can God make a mistake?

    2. dashingscorpio profile image88
      dashingscorpioposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Not everyone needs to have marathon sex in order for it to be great.
      Aside from that other factors such as age, health, energy, frequency, and time length of foreplay as well as any other images/thoughts which caused arousal prior to engaging in sex. The more stimulated one is the shorter amount of  time they will last. The "second round" usually lasts longer.

      Some people no longer have any physical interest in their partner and simply do whatever it takes to get them off and get it over with.
      Most men can help a woman achieve orgasm in less than 30 minutes whether it's via penile, orally, or manually.

      1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
        Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

        dashings, noteing that the first round can be like a waste-it is actually, the preparation stage. Within this stage, certain authorities has advice men take their time to study their female partner. Here she is arouse, and easily brought to one or two orgasm at the fore play level. This can make the ladies desire for coitus more enhanced.             That said, men at this stage are 'spent force' and easily tired, after the first penetration and ejaculation, not to think of a second round. What can be done to go on?

    3. peterstreep profile image79
      peterstreepposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      How long should it take a man to last in bed?
      It depends on the situation, doesn't it. And what are you counting? An ejaculation only lasts seconds, not 30 min. If you count foreplay, it can be the whole romantic evening during dinner leading up to a night of fun.
      And by the way. God is a fantasy. A man made-up story by man.  She does not exist.

      1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
        Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

        peterstreep, agreed ejaculation take seconds. Specific 30 seconds. The question is: how can the man act again, if his partner need satisfying. Let's be honest here. Some women are getting arouse now. Is it fair to dump such? That would seem the women were tools to use and discard.

        1. peterstreep profile image79
          peterstreepposted 13 months agoin reply to this

          Sex is communication and not a monologue. So it’s give and take and sharing. But just with communication their are a lot of different ways to go allong. Like a short instructive talk, a goodbye talk, a speaking and listening talk, an long talk. Etc. Each time sex is different, even with your partner. And everybody is different, so are the patterns of communication.
          Their is no right way that everybody should follow.

  2. Kathryn L Hill profile image80
    Kathryn L Hillposted 13 months ago

    Mother Nature is to blame, not God.
    ... and by the way, women are just as impatient to end a bed romping session ... to the point of kicking her partner out/off first.


    There are better things to do then " l o v e ".

    short lived bliss?
    be happy you felt it at all!
    and thank Mother Nature.

    1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
      Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Kathryn, glad to get you here. You represent the true women folk. You were frank. Why do you women want it that quiky? Men can take advantage of it.

      1. Kathryn L Hill profile image80
        Kathryn L Hillposted 13 months agoin reply to this

        Well, the lucky ones keep in touch with the dying embers of loving feelings.

        Ha ha! I'm just being cynical.

        A deep connection forms with sex and that is for the benefit of raising children.

        ... which is the same reason we have a sexual urge in the first place. 

        Blue Lagoon (Brook Shields/1980) came on TCM last night.

        First time I had ever seen it!

        I found it to be beautiful.
        See it, Mr. M!

        1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
          Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

          Okay, Kathryn, so you mean sex is merely for bearing children? If you're 40 plus, and would not raise more. And the urge is there right? What should you do? Remain burned?

  3. Isivwe Muobo profile image83
    Isivwe Muoboposted 13 months ago

    I don't think there should be a time frame. The goal should be satisfying each other, and if this happens in ten minutes, then the man is said to be good.

    1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
      Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Isivwe, I think this is when either party is arouse instanly. Here the man or woman serve the other their best. But that is not the challenge here. Go back and read my post.          A Nigerian actress some time ago, said any man that cannot last just one hour of sex in bed should not approach her for marriage. Whether she was single or devorce, God only know. That is how vital coitus is among partners. 10 minutes of sex is a go for unwinding or refiling.

  4. Kathryn L Hill profile image80
    Kathryn L Hillposted 13 months ago

    Q. Does Bliss sex guarantee a Bliss Life?
    A. NO.

    1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
      Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Kath, it is not fair that left an answer. Some can be positive, some neutral you know.

  5. Larrycode profile image62
    Larrycodeposted 13 months ago

    It does...

    1. Kathryn L Hill profile image80
      Kathryn L Hillposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      - my my, Larrycode!

      1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
        Miebakagh57posted 13 months agoin reply to this

        Kathryn, I told you so.  You see, there goes a positive answer.

  6. ekkmk profile image60
    ekkmkposted 9 months ago

    I think the meaning of sex is not how long it lasts, but how much pleasure it brings. If you are tired of all the usual positions, you can introduce toys and lubricants into your sex life. There are lubricants that warm up the skin a little, and some cool down, depending on who likes what. If you look at toys, then this is not necessarily a dildo or something primitive, there are also more interesting ones. I know some couples who started to get involved in webcam, watch hottest camgirls. It's interesting, the main thing is to remove your taboos.

    1. Miebakagh57 profile image51
      Miebakagh57posted 9 months agoin reply to this

      Agreed that sex is the quality or amount of pleasure brought into  coitus, it has time frame. Here ejaculation is  to last seconds, and orgasm in minutes. How long? The time frame varied for the later. Ejaculation should not take more than 10 seconds. But repeated ejaculation can take less than 5 seconds.                                         Here sex become meaningful. The less ejaculation, the more pleasure or orgasm that is obtain or deliver.                                                               I think the use of tools like lubricants depends on many factors.

 
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