How long should it take a man to last in bed? 30 minutes, or 60 minutes, or more? God, who create sex knows best its benefit for man and woman. Why are men not lasting a minimum of 30 minutes with their partner during sexual intercoure? The man is very quickly arose. What can he do? Both partners can help make it happen I believe. Let's discuss.
Seems that God either made a mistake or a massive joke on the male sex, doesn't it? Perhaps we should all, male and female, simply "suck it up" rather than try and thwart God's will.
Not everyone needs to have marathon sex in order for it to be great.
Aside from that other factors such as age, health, energy, frequency, and time length of foreplay as well as any other images/thoughts which caused arousal prior to engaging in sex. The more stimulated one is the shorter amount of time they will last. The "second round" usually lasts longer.
Some people no longer have any physical interest in their partner and simply do whatever it takes to get them off and get it over with.
Most men can help a woman achieve orgasm in less than 30 minutes whether it's via penile, orally, or manually.
dashings, noteing that the first round can be like a waste-it is actually, the preparation stage. Within this stage, certain authorities has advice men take their time to study their female partner. Here she is arouse, and easily brought to one or two orgasm at the fore play level. This can make the ladies desire for coitus more enhanced. That said, men at this stage are 'spent force' and easily tired, after the first penetration and ejaculation, not to think of a second round. What can be done to go on?
How long should it take a man to last in bed?
It depends on the situation, doesn't it. And what are you counting? An ejaculation only lasts seconds, not 30 min. If you count foreplay, it can be the whole romantic evening during dinner leading up to a night of fun.
And by the way. God is a fantasy. A man made-up story by man. She does not exist.
peterstreep, agreed ejaculation take seconds. Specific 30 seconds. The question is: how can the man act again, if his partner need satisfying. Let's be honest here. Some women are getting arouse now. Is it fair to dump such? That would seem the women were tools to use and discard.
Sex is communication and not a monologue. So it’s give and take and sharing. But just with communication their are a lot of different ways to go allong. Like a short instructive talk, a goodbye talk, a speaking and listening talk, an long talk. Etc. Each time sex is different, even with your partner. And everybody is different, so are the patterns of communication.
Their is no right way that everybody should follow.
Mother Nature is to blame, not God.
... and by the way, women are just as impatient to end a bed romping session ... to the point of kicking her partner out/off first.
There are better things to do then " l o v e ".
short lived bliss?
be happy you felt it at all!
and thank Mother Nature.
Kathryn, glad to get you here. You represent the true women folk. You were frank. Why do you women want it that quiky? Men can take advantage of it.
Well, the lucky ones keep in touch with the dying embers of loving feelings.
Ha ha! I'm just being cynical.
A deep connection forms with sex and that is for the benefit of raising children.
... which is the same reason we have a sexual urge in the first place.
Blue Lagoon (Brook Shields/1980) came on TCM last night.
First time I had ever seen it!
I found it to be beautiful.
See it, Mr. M!
I don't think there should be a time frame. The goal should be satisfying each other, and if this happens in ten minutes, then the man is said to be good.
Isivwe, I think this is when either party is arouse instanly. Here the man or woman serve the other their best. But that is not the challenge here. Go back and read my post. A Nigerian actress some time ago, said any man that cannot last just one hour of sex in bed should not approach her for marriage. Whether she was single or devorce, God only know. That is how vital coitus is among partners. 10 minutes of sex is a go for unwinding or refiling.
I think the meaning of sex is not how long it lasts, but how much pleasure it brings. If you are tired of all the usual positions, you can introduce toys and lubricants into your sex life. There are lubricants that warm up the skin a little, and some cool down, depending on who likes what. If you look at toys, then this is not necessarily a dildo or something primitive, there are also more interesting ones. I know some couples who started to get involved in webcam, watch hottest camgirls. It's interesting, the main thing is to remove your taboos.
Agreed that sex is the quality or amount of pleasure brought into coitus, it has time frame. Here ejaculation is to last seconds, and orgasm in minutes. How long? The time frame varied for the later. Ejaculation should not take more than 10 seconds. But repeated ejaculation can take less than 5 seconds. Here sex become meaningful. The less ejaculation, the more pleasure or orgasm that is obtain or deliver. I think the use of tools like lubricants depends on many factors.
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