me and my best friend got into a fight

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    ashlyn97posted 8 years ago

    i found myself at a loss of words when she talks trash about me... can any of you guys relate and give me advice on what to do???? any advice appreciated.. thank u...

    1. IzzyM profile image89
      IzzyMposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      If she talks trash about you, she was never your friend.

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      iamqweenbeeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      I agree with Izzy! Although there are friends who like to call each other the b word, etc. it still isn't a good practice to do that. If she always talks trash about you, that was a red flag to get a new friend. If there is any incline that she trashes you, that is still enough

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    ashlyn97posted 8 years ago

    thats exactly what i said but then she will turn around and say she never said it and then everyone blames me saying i made up lies

    1. IzzyM profile image89
      IzzyMposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Well, who said she trashes you?
      If she was/is your best friend, chances are you have the same group of friends.
      She says she didn't trash your name, and your other friends agree with her.
      So who told you she did?

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      iamqweenbeeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      All the more reason to steer clear...too much drama!

  3. SteveoMc profile image73
    SteveoMcposted 8 years ago

    I think that it is probably best to try to avoid the argument.  Tell her how you feel...hurt, disappointed, and depressed.  Then tell her that you will need to re-evaluate the friendship.  Although you honor her and value the friendship, you may not be able to continue a friendship that makes you feel so bad.

  4. AdeleCosgroveBray profile image96
    AdeleCosgroveBrayposted 8 years ago

    If you value her friendship, why not go for a coffee somewhere neutral and talk it through?  Tell her what you've been told in a non-accusatory manner.  Give her the opportunity to reply and take it from there.

    Also, query the source of your information.  Gossip is rarely pleasant in nature.  Does someone have a motive for spreading malicious gossip, perhaps?

  5. waynet profile image68
    waynetposted 8 years ago

    Go on the Jeremy Kyle Show and talk and shout it out, let people view it from a far on the TV!

  6. Uninvited Writer profile image81
    Uninvited Writerposted 8 years ago

    Why would anyone over 18 have this problem?

    Just ignore her and find new friends.

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    kimberlyslyricsposted 8 years ago

    or webcam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  8. Internetwriter62 profile image81
    Internetwriter62posted 8 years ago

    Respect is vital to friendship, so move on.

  9. ExpandYourMind profile image70
    ExpandYourMindposted 8 years ago

    Enjoying your company and friendship should be considered a privilege not a right.  If she can't treat you as a friend she has exhausted her privileges.

  10. cupid51 profile image69
    cupid51posted 8 years ago

    Mutual trust and respect is the key to any relationship. If your friend has no respect on you or you don't have any respect on your friend then it is difficult to maintain the relationship.

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      iamqweenbeeposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      So very true

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    johndenielposted 6 years ago

    At this situation, you should remains calm and don’t lose your patience. If she is your best friend then you should understand her carefully and find what the reason behind it is.


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