it is not easy to fall in love....

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  1. Jemmily profile image61
    Jemmilyposted 12 years ago

    it is not very easy, living all alone
    My friends try and tell me, find a man of my own
    But each time I try, I just break down and cry
    Cause I'd rather be home feeling blue

    1. profile image0
      khmohsinposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      you have to take decision yourself about yourself instead of talking here your friends and family members can advice you better who is best for you

    2. dutchman1951 profile image60
      dutchman1951posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Forgive and Like yourself first, then try the relationship. With a free mind set and confidence, your ability to attract will increase ten fold.

      be well and enjoy life, you are worth that and deserve to be happy.

    3. Bestlife profile image83
      Bestlifeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      it is not easy to fall in love.... true. but for some people it just happens. most difficult part will be the protect the love you got....! that need lot of attention & care.

  2. ohsoamberx profile image60
    ohsoamberxposted 12 years ago

    Well you can't fall in love and have a happy relationship if you aren't happy alone and love yourself completely. People end up desperate for a significant other, but in my opinion, this ruins relationships. Both parties involved need to be able to love themselves before they can love another and truly enjoy and feel the benefits of a loving rleationship

  3. habee profile image91
    habeeposted 12 years ago

    I think I've often fallen in love too easily...oh, wait. That was probably lust. lol

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      khmohsinposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      sorry to say i am not agree with you, if you often fall in love, do you think its love ?? !!! it will be time pass game only lol!!!

      1. Ranzi profile image75
        Ranziposted 12 years agoin reply to this

        Love is just a chemical imbalance in the brain.

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          khmohsinposted 12 years agoin reply to this

          hahaha lol !

          again wrong, after reviewing other members answer i can say it is one of the difficult question to answer "what is love" sad

          1. recommend1 profile image59
            recommend1posted 12 years agoin reply to this

            Love is nature's way of getting two ugly people together to procreate !

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              klarawieckposted 12 years agoin reply to this


          2. Ranzi profile image75
            Ranziposted 12 years agoin reply to this

            Again wrong? Is this life a math test, right and wrong answers? What are you Mr know is all?

      2. Disturbia profile image61
        Disturbiaposted 12 years agoin reply to this

        Love is a very personal thing.  We don't all have the same definition of what love is.  It doesn't mean the same thing to everybody and it's not expressed the same way by everyone.  To some people love means raging passion, to others it is shared comfortable quiet moments.  I absolutely believe habee when she says she has fallen in love often and too easily.  I do it all the time myself. smile

      3. habee profile image91
        habeeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

        Read my first post again. I suggested that it wasn't love - it was lust. As for real love, I've only been in love twice in my life. I'm married to one of the men now and have been for 23 years.

  4. DIYweddingplanner profile image80
    DIYweddingplannerposted 12 years ago

    Easy to FALL in love...STAYING in love...ah, there's the trick...

    1. habee profile image91
      habeeposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      True dat!

    2. tony0724 profile image60
      tony0724posted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Right on the mark with that one.

  5. SomewayOuttaHere profile image61
    SomewayOuttaHereposted 12 years ago's great falling in love...i just have to remember to not say 'i do'....'gulp' yikes

  6. Jemmily profile image61
    Jemmilyposted 12 years ago

    of course...I love my life and my-self.
    I need a man who love me and love my too.
    There are many colors in is very broken-heart if you let your lover go...but it is more terrible if you make every effort to preserve him...haiizaaa!

  7. 4tune profile image60
    4tuneposted 12 years ago

    Sweetheart its okay to be alone for as long as you need to, You do not need anyone if you want to feel blue allow it to flow to happen.

    People try to put on us a TIME frame in which to be ready for things, Life does not work that way not at all, Allow yourself to feel whatever the heck you need to right now.

    Men can come and go but we have ourselves GUARANTEED for life, and who says being blue is a SIN? No its a part of YOU as much as happiness is when that comes, That is the thing we fall for this IDEAL happiness deal from the media etc and it is NOT relativity all all but an illusion.

    We are a mixture of emotions and being happy is NOT the only acceptable one to have no matter who says otherwise!

  8. Cagsil profile image73
    Cagsilposted 12 years ago

    Actually, it is easy to fall in love. One only has to understand self better and be open to others. smile

  9. Jonathan Janco profile image60
    Jonathan Jancoposted 12 years ago

    Stop 'trying' to fall in love or be in a relationship. And if you really would rather be at home feeling blue, there is no one that can better decide that than you. And I know because of this life I have gone through tells me that my lessons of experience ring true.

  10. lordblackmoon profile image60
    lordblackmoonposted 12 years ago

    u r allright

  11. KK Trainor profile image60
    KK Trainorposted 12 years ago

    It will be easy as soon as you meet the right person. I met my husband at 31 and we got married two months later. It was just a good match and still is after eleven years.

    1. TamCor profile image79
      TamCorposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      Our story is very similar to yours--I was 29, we married two months after we met, had a son 9 months after that(I already had two other children)...and are going on 23 wonderful years together this year! smile

  12. profile image0
    Motown2Chitownposted 12 years ago

    Does posting song lyrics to start a forum thread count as duplicate content?


    1. Extinct Soul profile image61
      Extinct Soulposted 12 years agoin reply to this

      lollollol it should!


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