Yesterday, my biggest goal and dream of life, has broken down into pieces... I'm

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  1. rishworld profile image73
    rishworldposted 7 years ago

    Yesterday, my biggest goal and dream of life, has broken down into pieces... I'm LOST..m i COWARD??

    The dream for which i sacrificed everything is broken, my heart is still not able to believe, that ITS GONE,,, No sympathy is gonna heal me now,,, I hav lost my will for each n evrything in this world......... There's no one to whom i can go n ask for help...... Even after hardwork, the so called God has also not helped............NOW WHAT?

  2. Merlin Fraser profile image75
    Merlin Fraserposted 7 years ago

    There is always someone who will listen and no problem so large that it cannot be worked through.

      You cannot turn to your God and expect an instant response and then turn away asking now what ?  What exactly were your expecting ?

      Care to explain what you have lost  and why it's so important ?

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    reeltaulkposted 7 years ago

    Continue as though nothing happened, it's hurts but the same desire that instilled as well as gave you the determination to start that which you are about to give up on should still exist!  Maybe it has simmered down but the fire that flamed it is to strong to go out, maybe set you back due to a stumbling block.  You have to endure the pain as well as hold on to your dreams, beliefs, goals as well as YOU.  Let go and all that you have done would have been in vain!  Now answer this question, why are you continuing  to continue to exist.  To GiVe up......nah...

    Vonda G. Nelson

  4. Thesource profile image78
    Thesourceposted 7 years ago

    It is time for a reality check. Many are arriving at this spot every hour. I have been there too.

    It is time to re-evaluate everything you consider to be true. Time to re-consider what everybody has told you. Many may have given you wrong advise or information in good faith. It is also time to re-consider what you thought was wrong may in fact be right. God has pointed many scientists and others through this point to show them the truth that bought great discoveries.

    In my case, what every one told me about God was wrong. So God led me to the same point your are in now. He then showed me how the world got him all wrong. And little by little God showed how Good he really is. He was not judgmental and expressed unconditional love for me. He did not what me to do anything for Him, but stands willing to help me as God. I have now moved on from that point where your are in now to place of Joy, Love and Truth. He is never jealous or vengeful.

    Ask then for this gift of Truth, and you shall also receive Joy and Love from God. Seek and you will find and join many of us who dared to ask for this gift.

  5. Sue Bond profile image71
    Sue Bondposted 7 years ago

    I remember how lost I felt at the age of 26 when I got cut from the national team (for the 2nd time) and my dream of playing in the Olympics was over. It was the one dream I had pursued since the age of 12. I felt lost and directionless and angry. 

    20 years later it's easier to have perspective - but that doesn't help you now.  I'm wondering, given what I know now, what I'd say to that 26 year-old self.  Perhaps to just sit and breathe and be with the emotions.  To ask (God, the universe, your intuition) - what is the gift or lesson in this?  What next?  And to listen for the answers.  To just trust that all the growth, knowledge and skills gained from that experience will serve me.  That the universe is conspiring for us and not against us - even though it may not seem so right now. (Though those later two would have pissed me off when it happened!)

    Keep reaching out like you're doing here.

  6. debbiesdailyviews profile image60
    debbiesdailyviewsposted 7 years ago

    Now what... You look to yourself for the way forward.
    You Got yourself thus far.
    There arn't many people who get any way near their dreams, seems like, even though your dream got away.
    At least you touched it. You thought, planned, lived, and breathed it.

    I want you to beleive you can do it again, whatever that dream is, ( and not was ), It's clearly achievable.

    It was'nt the right time, for whatever the reasons.
    I'm telling you, even though you won't see this now. When your goal is reached, it will be a bigger, and better thrill for you, and only then, you will see why it did'nt happen just now.

    Just keep hope in your sights,,, you've obviously got the know how.
    Keep your head. and chin up.
    Good luck.

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    Amie Warrenposted 7 years ago

    I know where you are, but believe me, when one dream dies, another takes its place. I had everything...a wealthy husband, a great group of friends, a great life, anything material I wanted. I lost it all when my husband locked me out of my house and stole everything from me with his high-priced lawyers. I was left with one friend, who paid dearly for taking me in. Now that's a friend!

    Now I have another be self-sufficient, and respected in my own right, not because I'm someone important's wife.  I can do it, and you can do it too.

    My favorite quote:
    In your life, you are the only person you will never leave or lose.
    To the questions of your life, you are the only answer.
    To the problems of your life, you are the only solution.
    by Jo Caudert

  8. womenintouch profile image59
    womenintouchposted 7 years ago

    God has never left you it is you who has left him. What ever the hurt, what ever the pain you can get through it.  I am there for you in spirit and in prayer. When hurt comes into our lives we forget who to go to. We think we have to deal with this ourselves. we can't do it alone that is why God ceated others. recently a friend of mind lost her daughter to suicide I am sure that no one can feel what she felt when she got the news. But two weeks later and her head is lifted, she is not healed from the hurt but she did not stay down in a rut , she dusted herself off and got back out there , she has help from friends and family. Seek and yu will find; Knock and the door will be open .
    God is waiting for you to come back to his arms of comfort

  9. gloryvetten profile image72
    gloryvettenposted 7 years ago

    I think we all have been there. You can lose everything you've worked for...everything that is on this earth that has value to you....but does this all define you. Yes these things have made you happy or been a huge part of your life...But God is Love..Believe..have Faith moments like this happen because you are strong and this adds to you...The real you...You see yourself in the mirror..but this is not who you are...You are a spirit.This earth is temporary...God has Eternity..Please forgive my words if they seem harsh or not helpful. I have much respect for you and I know God has big things planned for you. BE BLESSED. I don't know you but if you need a friend I am here for you.

  10. Bianu profile image61
    Bianuposted 7 years ago

    Are you an entertainer? So much anguish expressed in so little a space. Well done.

  11. 1kmjs profile image76
    1kmjsposted 7 years ago

    You may have had the wrong dream, your destiney is still in awaiting, the shattered pieces are there to help form you into your divine complete you. Take in the lesson and put together the next step in your quest. Its going to be okay my friend.


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