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Ever had a Dream you've had to let die?

  1. sullyosully profile image59
    sullyosullyposted 3 months ago

    Ever had a Dream you've had to let die?

    Have you ever held a deep passion/desire to achieve or do something in life that at some point you had to relinquish to reality?

  2. Wesman Todd Shaw profile image97
    Wesman Todd Shawposted 3 months ago

    Well the first time such a thing happened was around the time I was a senior in high school. It didn't seem to matter how much I loved baseball, or how often I worked at baseball skills, I wasn't built to become a professional athlete.

  3. Jessie L Watson profile image95
    Jessie L Watsonposted 3 months ago

    Yes. And I foresee more of that in the future. We're constantly in a haze of ignorance about how things are supposed to turn out. Just like when a computer freezes, the computer ceases to be a computer. It becomes something else entirely. Perhaps dead weight or a complex machine made up of tiny working parts that we don't understand and couldn't even possibly begin to try and fix ourselves. Sometimes - if we're fortunate - we can just hold the power button down, reboot and wipe the sweat from our brow. Other times, we have to change course in new and dramatic ways.

  4. Ken Burgess profile image91
    Ken Burgessposted 3 months ago

    Accomplishing one's goals or dreams often takes great sacrifice.

    In pursuing and achieving one's dreams, it is often required that you focus in on that effort at the expense of all other things around you.

    Nothing I ever accomplished worthy of mentioning was ever easily achieved, it always came at the expense of my ability to spend my time freely on other things...often it consumed years of my time where 'normal routines' or 'everyday life' that many enjoy is just not possible.  No sitting down at night to watch an hour or two of tv, no nights out at the club until the wee hours of the morning.

    Even now, the choices would be between family and a more relaxed life, or much more effort and stress and no time for the family, to achieve the serious goals that I would like to pursue... so those goals are on hold for now until the kids are of an age where my being around is not really significant to their lives.