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worst thing your partner ever said to you.

  1. mindreader profile image59
    mindreaderposted 7 years ago

    pls do share your opinions

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      badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Goodbye !

  2. frogdropping profile image85
    frogdroppingposted 7 years ago

    " ... but you don't count, do you?"

    edit - the above was not my current partner, sorry. Was thinking 'ex' smile

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    rednckwmnposted 7 years ago

    One of the many horrid things an ex said to me..."hookers can do it, what's your problem?"

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      frogdroppingposted 7 years ago in reply to this

         yikeshmmyikes

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        rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I know, right?
        Here's from a different one, his mother had purchased flowers, and a card for me, but signed his name and said it was from him on valentines day. She thought she was helping to "keep him out of trouble". So, Im all happy thinking he finally remebered me once, he gets home...throws his keys at me and yells.."who the F**K bought YOU flowers?"

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      badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I can't even get the hooker to do it !!

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        rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        HA HA HA!!! But, you dont know what "it" was...

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          badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Bet I actually do !

    3. chukra G profile image59
      chukra Gposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      maybe he can't control his anger, but if he meant it,first of all he is not your partner. smile cheer up

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        rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Thanks. It was a loooong time ago. He is not my partener for a reason. I am cheery.  smile

        1. chukra G profile image59
          chukra Gposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          so express your cheerness and pass it to everyone smile your picture don't look that you are cheery

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    rednckwmnposted 7 years ago

    OK, here is a funny one. It wasnt intended as bad, it came out bad tho and it was real funny. One day my hubby looks at me, and looks all concerned, and says to me..."Oh, honey. I can see why your back hurts, having to carry that thing around all the time.."
    he meant my butt.

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      badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Oh I  got plenty of butt ones because I work in an office it was " its ok for you, all you do is sit on your ass all day". I gotta admit I miss her intelligent remarks. Or if something electrical went " Why couldn't you have been a handyman " and like why in all our years of marriage didnt she work.

      Ohhhhh I gotta stop, you have stirred me up lol !

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        rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        OH NO!!!!!! dont get worked up!! Oh man, I have so many shi**y things that have been said, that I laugh at now...kinda..
        "are you EVER going to get dressed again?"
        "its not like YOU work, you dont do anythign all day.."
        "you need to manage your time better...".that one cuz I hadnt wahsed the dishes that day. My baby was 2 days old, and I had a 3 year old, and we had moved 5 days before...
        Oh, and I get this one ALL the time..."this dumb blonde..no offense.."
        WTF??!!!!

        1. emievil profile image84
          emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I second your WTF.

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            rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Why, thank you.  smile

          2. TamCor profile image80
            TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I third it, and I'm not even blonde! big_smile

            Oh, and I used to get the "it's not like YOU work" thing, too...ugh...what a moron...smile

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    Am I dead, yet?posted 7 years ago

    I have someone better than you now.  She can run circles around you in every way. -sigh-

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      badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Awwwww the dog, come get a hug from the Captain !

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        Am I dead, yet?posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        -hugs- thanks Captain.

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      rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      sad I doubt that she can be as awesome as you. Hes just very blind.

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        Am I dead, yet?posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I tell myself this everyday. I am starting to believe it, thanks smile

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          rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          it is hard, I know.

        2. TamCor profile image80
          TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          You know what?  It seems to be the "thing to do" with exes--doing their best to run you down, make you doubt yourself.  I went through that, too, AIDY...it's just a common tactic, and I'm really glad to see that you are realizing that now.

          It's pretty obvious to me, and a lot of others that you are a very special person...smile

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            Am I dead, yet?posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            oh Tam, thank you so much. -superhugs- ='D (sniff)

            1. TamCor profile image80
              TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Oh, gosh--I missed this...you're so welcome--~hugs back~

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            badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            You are so right with that  remark, they spend years robbing you of yer self-esteem when in all honesty it was them who had the problems.

  6. Colebabie profile image61
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    I have a shirt in my closet that I never wear because every time I try it on it poofs in the front. Just not a good style. I say "This shirt makes me look pregnant, not happening"
    We were in a store, I took a top off the rack and held it up to me. He said "No baby remember, thats the kind of shirt that makes you look pregnant". (I can think it but you can't!!) He didn't mean it to sounds mean.. but I was like "Are you kidding? Go to the apple store, I'll meet up with you later"

    He's never been genuinely mean to me though.

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    ryankettposted 7 years ago

    "I'm bored"..... you can guess when.

    1. Colebabie profile image61
      Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I would cry.

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        ryankettposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I wasn't too pleased.... it was a while ago though, hasn't happened since.

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          badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I would be pleased just pleasing myself, stuff her, oh I just did lol !

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          rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          see, she must have been doing something wrong, not you.  smile

  8. emievil profile image84
    emievilposted 7 years ago

    hmmm, from my ex - "I love you but I love her more". Ouch!

    1. mindreader profile image59
      mindreaderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      oh gosh...no pity

      1. emievil profile image84
        emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Thanks. Got over him fast. It was like - "his loss, not mine". smile

        1. mindreader profile image59
          mindreaderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          oh yes you are right,it was his loss.lucky you

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        Am I dead, yet?posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        what a stab in the heart...I really should pay more attention in class! Dang it HubPages...being so addictive!

  9. TamCor profile image80
    TamCorposted 7 years ago

    When my ex and I split up, he told me that no other man would ever want to be with me, and take on two little kids...

    Well, a few months later, I met Tom, who tucked those two little kids under his wing, and has been the father to them that my ex NEVER has been...and my son actually changed his last name when he turned 18, so it would be the same as his "real" dad, Tom...

    Some exes just shouldn't even be allowed to talk, lol...

    1. emievil profile image84
      emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Wow. Tom's a great guy, wish there are more like him smile.

      1. TamCor profile image80
        TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Thanks, I'm very lucky, I know--if there were more like him, there'd sure be a lot more happy marriages out there, like ours...smile

        There just HAS to be some, though, I know it! big_smile

        1. emievil profile image84
          emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          LOL, I would think they're all taken big_smile.

          1. mindreader profile image59
            mindreaderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            god bless him...muahhaaaa

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      rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      He just adopted my 12 year old, in June. (We have been together since she was 2.) Some exes shouldnt be allowed to breath.....

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      Am I dead, yet?posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You are very lucky, Tom is just adorable, you two are just blessed -hugs-

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    badcompany99posted 7 years ago

    May the hair on all ex partners heads turn to drumsticks and beat the shit out of them !   Amen smile

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      rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!! I just laughed so loud, the kids are all...whats so funny?.....

    2. emievil profile image84
      emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      LOL BC. I wish I read this then so that I could have prayed the same thing smile.

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    badcompany99posted 7 years ago

    Ok have an Axe the Ex Day smile

  12. chukra G profile image59
    chukra Gposted 7 years ago

    not every ex are bad, there are silent wellwishers, good gentlemen.

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      rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      well, thats true. Not every MALE ex is bad. People become ex's for a reason tho. My husband, whom I love dearly, was never bad to his ex's. but they were awful to him. It goes both ways....

      1. Misha profile image76
        Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        But every FEMALE is tongue lol

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          badcompany99posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Oh you brave man lol !

          1. Misha profile image76
            Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            *hides beneath the pillow*

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              rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              ha ha. I know where you really hide.  smile  I am a good ex. really, theres good people, and bad.

              1. Misha profile image76
                Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Nah, there are lost people, and not so lost people, that is all the difference smile

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                  rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  ?? i think i am lost...

                  1. Misha profile image76
                    Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Nope, you are not so lost. Your ex probably is lost smile

                    We all tend to do stupid things when we are lost...

        2. TamCor profile image80
          TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I BEG your pardon, Misha---I was, and am, the most PERFECT ex-wife...Just ask my ex-husband--big_smile big_smile big_smile

          1. Misha profile image76
            Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            You must be a rare exception wink

        3. emievil profile image84
          emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          What? Females? We're the gentlest creatures here on Earth. =P big_smile

          1. chukra G profile image59
            chukra Gposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            no- you are getting stronger.

          2. Misha profile image76
            Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Gentlest in a worst way, right? wink

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              rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              depends on how mad you make 'em    lol

            2. emievil profile image84
              emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              LOL of course. Hell hath no fury, like a woman scorned and all that big_smile

    2. TamCor profile image80
      TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You're right, chukra--but they seem to be the exception, instead of the rule, and that's sad.


      My husband, Tom, has an ex-wife, who had two kids. He's been divorced from her for over 22 years, but still keeps in contact with her kids--they call him Dad. So he is one of those "good gentlemen".

      Believe me, I wasn't just targeting men--women can be just as cruel...

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    badcompany99posted 7 years ago

    My main problem is we are seperated a year but she still phones me every other day for a chat like we are mates. Its weird and it makes it hard to move on, but then life is strange, shit maybe it's just me thats strange !

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      rednckwmnposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      maybe shes sorry? the past is hard to let go of.

  14. Colebabie profile image61
    Colebabieposted 7 years ago

    I'm friends (or on good terms) with all my ex boyfriends. What does that say?

    1. TamCor profile image80
      TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That Misha put his foot in his mouth BIGTIME, lol...big_smile

      1. Colebabie profile image61
        Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        And that my exes are all pretty good guys. I'm lucky.

      2. Misha profile image76
        Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I wish i could sad I lost that kind of flexibility like 50 years ago...

        1. TamCor profile image80
          TamCorposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          lol--me, too--I was just teasing you! smile

          1. Misha profile image76
            Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I know smile

        2. Colebabie profile image61
          Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I can, although I rarely have to. smile

    2. Misha profile image76
      Mishaposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      That you had more than one. wink

      1. Colebabie profile image61
        Colebabieposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        That is true smile

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    Silver Freakposted 7 years ago

    He woke me up the day after my 40th b'day and said,"I'm leaving you." When I started to cry, he laughed and said, "I'm just going to work."

    He came really close to never having to go to work again.

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    pageantgirl31413posted 7 years ago

    I mentioned something about me having a dream that I died or something and my husband said, "You can't, I don't even have life insurance on you."

    Thanks hunny. Anyways, I knew he didn't mean it the way it seemed. I'm a stay at home mom so his main focus is bringing home money.

  17. BeccaHubbardWoods profile image85
    BeccaHubbardWoodsposted 7 years ago

    Wow, I can't believe how nice all the worst things your partner has said to you guys are (and you defend some of them). My husband told me "how can you love someone like you?" Yeah.

  18. Gemsong profile image84
    Gemsongposted 7 years ago

    Worst thing? I was sleeping in one morning and my spouse woke me up at 5am.

    "Have you seen my pants?"

    I rolled over and looked at the closet door which had several pairs of pants hanging up.

    "Whats wrong with those?" I growled from lack of sleep.

    "I don't like those. I want the other ones."

    I leveled the evil eye at him. "Look in the laundry hamper," I snarled.

    "I found them!" he said.

    I grunted debating on whether to maim him or go back to sleep. At that point my son who was in first grade at the time walked into the bedroom.

    "Mommy, where are my pants?"

    I let them live, but it was a close thing.

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    annvansposted 7 years ago

    I don't have a partner now, but the worst thing my ex ever said to me was... hmmmm I cannot think of what it was.  I do know what the BEST thing he ever said to me was..."I finally got the divorce papers mailing them to you and all you need to do is sign them".  Oh, ok, I know what the worst thing was...he said "I saw you talking to your ex"  (this is not horribly bad or anything, maybe offensive like he was claiming that talking to an ex is cheating).  No, I take that back, the worst thing my ex ever said to me was "happy anniversary"  ...why? cuz I had no idea it was our anniversary and I forgot the anniversary date right after we got married.

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    BJCposted 7 years ago

    I have a 308 with your name on.  Not sure I've spelled it right, but oh well.  That was sort of mild as I think about it, anyway, he's history and my current husband is wonderful .............

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    RedSonja94posted 7 years ago

    Mine has said "Just stop" when I've tried to start some loving.  But otherwise nothing too bad.

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      lrohnerposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      And that's not 'too bad'? Sheesh! Glad I'm not married anymore!

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    dave272727posted 7 years ago

    My ex-wife saying I do.  That marriage was such a mistake that it never should have happened.  Didnt last very long though.

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    Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago

    Okay there are two exes I can think of....one broke up with me in an email! yes I said it an EMAIL! He wasn't even man enough to braek up with me face to face. disgusting!

    And then the second wasn't waht he said but his actions. He was a marine statioedn out here in Cali and we hooked up. He then used me the last month he was here as a sex toy. After he moved back to Texas he called and told me that he was going to get back with his ex wife and try to make things work for their daughter, thus like I said just using me as a sex toy. nothing more.

    1. pageantgirl31413 profile image88
      pageantgirl31413posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Well that sucks...you deserved better anyways!

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        Crazdwriterposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Yep it sucked but hey it has made me a stronger person and I have married a great guy who has loved me since Freshman year in HS. smile So I'm glad for the experiences because I am now where I am supposed to be, married to a real man and a great guy.

    2. emievil profile image84
      emievilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      MEN! Grrrrrrrrrr. (LOL j/k)

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    rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago

    to be quite honest, I can't remember~~ life is too short~~ wink

    1. mindreader profile image59
      mindreaderposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      thatmeans your partner is too sweet to utter anythin bad...

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    isis_dreams2002posted 7 years ago

    if you ever leave me i will hunt you down and bring you back home.

    then 2 months later he left

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    kamalakshyposted 7 years ago

    i love u

 
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