Define Arrogance-good or bad opinions and Definitions

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   kimberlyslyricsposted 13 years ago

   For me it is such a sad character trait if one has it.
   
   It's a lack of humility to be open, or even better, care what someone else believes.
   
   Arrogance is a false sense of pride, simply because in its selfishness, the arrogant person could care less even knowing so.
   
   So how do you deal with someone who is not occasionally arrogant completely?   Prides themselves on being so.  To put others down
   
   I learned today the only thing I can do, given I am upset, not him, is walk away.
   
   That's sad and so unnecessary.
   
   He's probably reading this rationalizing, with no doubt, what a fool I am.
   
   Again, sad! 
   
   I can't change anyone but myself.  I tire of the arguments
   
   Any arguments for or against this?
   
   Definitions of arrogance to you?
   
   Do you think you are arrogant?
   
   Thank you.

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      ceciliabeltranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      to be arrogant is to be afraid of being wrong. don't let these guys get to you, dear. most of them are here because they're not somewhere else (or can't sleep like me)

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      listening 2 what u r saying.  i'm not arrogant and don't really have a defintion handy right now...putting others down - u have to wonder why - ask yourself that question.  i see it as a sign of weakness or something lacking - all that energy in dismissing someone or something - negative stuff.  why?  sometimes i guess people are just all caught up in themselves and don't see what is beside them, around them, in front of them or behind them....and then 'poof' you're gone and they still don't get it because they are still busy with their own thoughts and don't see you or hear you and take you for granted.  not sure if my words helped any...sometimes people need a  good 'bonk on the head' and others well............

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         ceciliabeltranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         am i in the middle of a love spat?

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            SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            LOL!!!!!!

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               ceciliabeltranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               it seems personal for a forum discussion, like you hurt my feelings and such

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                  ceciliabeltranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  she is a hottie! you ought to be nice!

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                     SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     okay - the way i wrote and how the posts all fell together looks pretty odd!!!  I was just answering questions as I wrote - no I'm not the guy, I'm a (hetro) woman just responding!!!!  LOL - I'm cracking up over here!
                     
                     Now, let's get serious again.

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                        ceciliabeltranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        oh now it makes sense. it's two girls talking.

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