hey veronica, I love your adivice and I have to say i'm in a situation that I would love to hear your oppinion on. what do you do when your with a man, and you love him, but you just keep messing up? I have made so many mistakes being with him, and I just don't want to dissapoint him anymore. I feel as though hes waiting to see a change but every chance I get I just don't think, and get sucked into the "now" instead of consciously making a better decsion for US. trust issues are a crucial element and I want to change..who wants to be with someone that cant trust them? can you please help?