Describe you "Perfect" Mate

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   Rafiniposted 14 years ago

   So we all know there is no such thing as "Perfect", right?  But, what if you could hand pick the qualities of your significant other?  So they would be a "Perfect" match for you?  What would those qualities be?

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      tobey100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I'm not gonna comment here other than to say, I can't wait to read all the posts.  It never hurts to see where or if you measure up.  The scale has to be somewhere between a troll and Adonis.  Can't wait.

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         Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      There is no perfect mate. Humans cannot obtain perfection in any manner. Therefore, it's only a dream mate.

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      SimeyCposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Easy - my wife! There ya go!

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   Hokeyposted 14 years ago

   A WOMAN!!!!!!     

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      Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      any will do?  that's so sad   

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         Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Why Not?  I'm not shallow!!!   

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            Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            !!!!!!

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   theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

   he is sitting at my feet right now dosnt talk back, easy to keep, you know the rest

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      tobey100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      

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      Anathposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Funny, mine was at my feet too, but he speaks back!

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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         Hokeyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Only when you tell me too!! 

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            Anathposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            I think you are at your cutest when you just keep quite and shake your tail

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   tobey100posted 14 years ago

   At this point I better say my wife.  She reads these things sometimes.

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   Rafiniposted 14 years ago

   sorry, had to finish an assignment, otherwise I would have posted mine when i asked.
   
   Ok, here goes:
   
   intelligent conversation (not a limited vocabulary but Not Politics!)
   a sense of good humor
   active
   can enjoy a book
   has a willingness to appreciate silence

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      tobey100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      "has a willingness to appreciate silence"  Have I just been told in the most polite manner to shutup?   

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         Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         
         
         only if you like to talk All The Time!!

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      Rochelle Frankposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I'm trying to picture a guy actively reading a book and carrying on a humorous conversation while everyone listens to him quietly.

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         drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         so a perfect person must be able to multitask?

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         Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         too funny!

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   I don't believe in 'perfect' mates. Just perfect moments with the right person!

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      Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      oh, but this is about fantasy!

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      tobey100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      MOW, let Rafini dream a little.  Reality usually sucks. 

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         ok rafini...she's out there somewhere....drop dead gorgeous...charming to the last detail....full of emotional intelligence....and a heart of gold. And yes, she loves you too!
         
         But WHY would she still be single??

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            tobey100posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Good question.  I really have no business even being in the conversation.  i can't even match up socks, much less people.

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               myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               oh c'mon...don't you know in cyber space,  we're all perfect for each other?!

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                  Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  You are sooooooo correct.

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                     myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     see now...we could be soul mates for all we know!! 

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                        Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        I must concur with you.

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                     drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     kiss up!

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                        myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        behave people...we're in danger of being kicked out for hijacking! Too many rules..!
                        
                        See, 'perfect' people in an imperfect world...sigh.... !
                        
                        

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                           drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           MOW always trying to monitor hijacking...
                           
                           When it comes to thread talk, most topics stray from the original post...that's how 'humans' interact and operate. (WINK!)
                           
                           Now back to the 'thread'...my perfect mate would have to be someone who is not over-dramatic but has a little spice!

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                              myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              ?? .... you've seen right through me!
                              
                              A rather half hearted attempt at monitoring moreover, but shh...don't tell anyone, it's just to maintain appearances......sucker for perfection as we are!
                              
                              see, I managed to stay on topic there...! yay...!

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         Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         thanks, tobey.  gotta dream sometimes   

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      drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      pffft...I'm a perfect mate...

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         ...and I don't believe it!

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   Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago

   Yep there is no such thing as "perfect" but I have found my husband and I love him dearly. To me he is "perfect". yes he has his flaws but that is what makes him perfect.

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      Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      naturally having flaws helps make a person perfect, but we aren't talking about flaws (unless that is what you would "hand pick"  )

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         Crazdwriterposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         You asked to describe my perfect mate and that is what I did.

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            Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

              no prob  You are another of the lucky ones 

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   Denno66posted 14 years ago

   I see perfect people....they don't know they're perfect....

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      myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      those are my favorite kind actually.....

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      Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      perfect people who don't know they're perfect - do they exist?

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         Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Metaphysically speaking? I;m not sure.....

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            Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            anyone?

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               Denno66posted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Beuller....Beuller....

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         drej2522posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         they are diamonds in the rough...too shy or totally unaware...where they don't know they are 'beautiful' inside and out because of what their own self-interpretations.

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            Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            good answer!  i like it 

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   donotfearposted 14 years ago

   I don't think there is a "perfect" mate. Being that we're all human and full of imperfection, I don't think it's humanly possible.

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    Denno66posted 14 years ago

    My wife is my perfect mate. She loves me despite my many flaws and I her(hers are markedly less than mine ). That sounds like a recipe for perfection to me.

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       Rafiniposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       another of the lucky ones   

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    Journey2244posted 14 years ago

    Why, me, myself and I. 

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