Finding a Soul Mate Possible This Day And Age?

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   sharriratcliffposted 14 years ago

   I feel that with the internet it is much easier to find that special someone. There is a chemistry that two soul mates know deep within...when they first look at each other!
   
   But today I feel there is too much co dependency in our society and we have to heal our spirits...so we can focus on finding the right one!

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      figmentposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I think we can have many soul mates in our life times.  I'm looking for one right now.

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      darrylcrawfordposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      A soul mate is a worth while search. They can be older, younger than you, or the same age, from another culture, another part of your world and respectfully so, love has no color, no limits, love exist so you and your partner will experience love in all it's glory. Breaking all boundaries and codes that try to limit loves abilities. Love cannot deprive your best when you believe. An act of faith is needed to experience this. In life at times we must put aside logic and do what feels right and not to deny our feelings.
      
      I deeply believe a soul mate is still very possible to be found in this day and age. Those seeking must know what they need and want in a relationship and not compromise your needs and desires based on what others have said is best for us. Only our creator knows what is best for us. . I believe God gives us many opportunities to merge with our soul mate and in some cases though a good choice may arise it is always best to speak to your creator for confirmation about who is best suited for you.
      
      Even when things seems impossible, love believes in miracles and love miraculously creates miracles and expects them. God is Love. The person you need and want may be right there by your side or they may be someone you never considered or maybe someone you may have considered but they were not responsive to you needs and desires because they were not ready then and are either getting ready or are ready now. The choice is based on your faith and unwavering trust in love's guidance.
      
      Love is forever and there is nothing is existence that can or should hold you back from your choices. Belief is power. Choice is power and if you belief in love and that person that you desire believes in you, nothing can stop your passion for ultimate fulfillment.
      
      BELIEVE IN LOVE. LOVE EXIST ONLY TO EXPERIENCE THE FULLEST THEREOF.

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      Rochelle Frankposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You are right about the dependency. It is probably best to find yourSELf first-- then you will better know who matches.
      
      Internet can be scary-- so much is hidden. Yet, trying to meet people in bars and clubs or even in churches and social groups can be equally, if not more, frightening.
      I lucked out-- I first saw my future husband when I was nine years old. He was a few years older. We ignored each other for about 9 more years, and got married a couple of years after that.

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   Ohmaposted 14 years ago

   I have found mine and not on the internet. Not saying there is anything wrong with that I just think the whole online match making thing is a little scary

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   Anna Evanswoodposted 14 years ago

   I have had a number of bad relationship experiences... net induced and non net induced.. All I can say is that when you meet the one you will know:)

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   sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

   It's a process and it's important to be the the best you can be. Don't cheat yourself out of a chance to meet the right person while you're involved with the wrong person. The one thing the young men I know are looking for is a healthy woman who takes care of herself and can be trusted to be left alone with their kids. They want a partner someone who's in it for the long haul.

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      figmentposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I like that

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         sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks Fig!

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            cecil r lawson srposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            i am looking for a wife

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      Madison22posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I totally like that too:)

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         sneakorocksolidposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks Madison!

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   EFPotterposted 14 years ago

   You have to be open to it when it comes, whether it be in person or online. Just let it happen, if you will. I don't ascribe to match making sites online, but I happened to find my current partner of four years when we both posted on a forum and started talking.
   
   I think the internet opens up the ability to talk to more people, definitely. By sheer odds, you're more likely to find people you're compatible with, because you're more likely to find people.

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   B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 14 years ago

   Its possible, but too many people jump the gun or look in the wrong places. Seeking your true soul mate just might be as easy as it being the person you sit beside everyday somewhere or the person who opens the door for you at the grocery. It could even be one of your closest friends and you just have not realized it yet.
   
   Too many people feel they need immediate love and jump at the first person to flirt with them, which usually turns out to be a bad thing.
   
   Look deep into people, not just at their appearance but teach yourself to look into their hearts, there is where you may find exactly what you have been seeking ...

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   Mekenzieposted 14 years ago

   TIME is the key.  A person can present themselves in a positive manner .. only so long.  If you are wise you will take time to study the person to see if they are for 'real.'  I myself have been fooled .. not in a dating relationship .. but, as an example, a person on the hubs.   Presenting one way .. follow their line of discussion .. find a different person altogether.  Make Sense?

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   BRIAN SLATERposted 14 years ago

   You have to believe that you can. Everyone has more than one soul mate,- the problem is people don't believe they are destined too, so settle for a "nearly" right person.  People can find their soul mate when they know themselves a little better, usually after a divorce. Timing is everything.

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   Greek Oneposted 14 years ago

   in my single days, I was able to find one or two soul mates every weekend!

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    Fluffymetalposted 14 years ago

    I miss the passionate kiss of somebody i consider a soul mate.

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       earnestshubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       You will find another soul mate soon! Take your time, look around, there are always a few nice guys who have been discarded by others who wanted something you don't care about.

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    Cagsilposted 14 years ago

    I'll agree, in same boat.

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       Fluffymetalposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       How about a passionate smooch?

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    Naomi R. Coxposted 14 years ago

    It is possible to find your soul mate. I had came to the point that I just couldn't trust any man. I had been in 2 very bad marriages, had given up on every finding Mr. Right. When a woman or man is treated badly, it takes alot for someone to gain that trust. I had built a wall around my heart and wasn't going to let anyone in. Then Chris came into my life, as soon as I looked in his eyes, I knew I was going to love this man and I do, with every fiber of my being. He treats me with respect and love. We know what the other is thinking, sometimes we speak and we're saying the same thing. So yes, you can find your soul mate and most times they are right in front of you. You just haven't met them yet. Good luck to you. I wish you the same happiness that I have found.

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       Rochelle Frankposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Nice history -- I'm sure it was difficult getting to the happy part, but that's what counts.

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