What would your perfect mate be like?

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   schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years ago

   Now, wait a second! lol
   What I want to say is,
   What characteristics would a compatible and reasonably realistic be? Think hard!! (no pun intended! )

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      Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

      its tough to say really.  although i will say lot of female hubbers here are quite nice, as i wouldn't mind dating some of them.

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         schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         that's very sweet
         
         hey, did u get the email i sent?

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            Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

            what email?  the one on exorcisms?

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               schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               a new one. just now.

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                  Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  hmm..that's weird. it didn't show up in my email. i might've overlooked it by accident. let me recheck.

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                     schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     ok. Sorry about that. It's no longer as important

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                        Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                        are you sure? if you want, i can meet you on facebook to discuss your question. i got time now really.  just look me up by the same e-mail address.  you still have it right?

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                           schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                           um, .ok. I will look it up

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                              Stevennix2001posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                              well i think i just sent you a add request. you have the same e-mail here as you do there right?

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                                 schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                                 yeah, I'll check now

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      Stump Parrishposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      The problem I face is that everytime I conjure up the perfect mate I run into this problem. I respect and desire intelligence but if she is smart enough to suit me she is smart enough to have nothing to do with me. Bottom line is that my perfect match is too good for me and that sucks.

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   John Holdenposted 13 years ago

   My perfect mate would be . . . er . . . perfect.

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   Joy56posted 13 years ago

   a good communicater, and an empathetic personality, not selfish, or mean.....

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   frogdroppingposted 13 years ago

   Mate? Lol strange word. You mean partner, spouse? If so, the one I have. He suits me perfectly. And will be home in a month. Happy frog

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   couturepopcafeposted 13 years ago

   Crazy in a cute sort of way, smart, common sense, a man's man, talented at something, looks good dressed up or down but definately has to be stylish, clean, handy, hunky, poetic, brown hair or blonde with brown undertones, brown eyes, about 5'10, broad shoulders, nice arms, strong jawline and chin, could really like to cook, this would be helpful and creative, maybe could own a Jeep, likes to travel, likes shoes but doesn't always have to wear them, clean fingernails, non-smoker, non-drinker, must love healthy food and lifestyle, would help if he was good at something that I'm not, and some guys really like to vacuum.  This is weird but that could be thrown in as a bonus.  Not too opinionated but good conversationalist, not a flirt or a show-off, doesn't have to prove anything.  Well, that's enough for starters.  Oh, and maybe British.  Aussies are ok, too.

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      Kangaroo_Jaseposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      You just described Hugh Jackman, but he is already married

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      KCC Big Countryposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Can I put my order in for what she's having?     Nice list.

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   SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years ago

   ...hmmm....don't really have a list
   
   ...definitely has to be smart...that's no. 1 for me.....
   
   ...and a bit of a dark angel?

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   sofsposted 13 years ago

   Just the way he is..loving, patient, supportive, my friend. I wouldn't think of changing anything about him.. that my spouse for me.

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   timorousposted 13 years ago

   Smart, funny, down-to-earth, honest, trustworthy, compassionate, understanding, caring, sincere, open-minded, a good listener, supportive, sensible, healthy, in good shape, lovely appearance (of course) and personality, non-smoker, easy-going, likes to laugh a lot, doesn't take anything too seriously, even-tempered, accepts and forgives minor faults and misunderstandings, decent cook (healthy diet is important), stands up for herself..doesn't take any s**t from anyone.   My best friend...
   
   That's not too much to ask is it?

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      ...that's quite a list...but it's all good......do they have to vaccuum too? j/k

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         timorousposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         ..no, I'm certainly not domestically challenged.  I would be doing more than my fair share of such tasks.

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      sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      pretty small list Tim... small ask i should say... may be you should... well get her made to order... or what ,.............haaaahaa you are man!

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         timorousposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Yeah ..I think you're on the right track sofs.  Maybe you could send me an angel, or something close to it

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            sofsposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            A tall order Tim... good luck  to you ... ( on your never ending search) will try to send one...maybe a goblin for Halloween!!   Haha :Lol:

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   SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years ago

   ...okay...here's my list....LOL!
   
   smart, smart, lover - ohhhhh yea, partner, friend, can cook really good, likes to cook together, financially stable, down to earth, relaaaaxxxxxed, likes to have fun, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc, rides a motorcycle too, doesn't sweat the small stuff, impulsive - hmmmm....that's an asset, etc etc etc, change is not a threat, has lived life, can keep up with me, loves laughing, etc etc etc, wants to experience many things, etc etc etc etc

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      this sounds like a dating ad

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         Stump Parrishposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Perfect match dot com sent me to you. Don't ever trust that site again as you can see what the results are. Everything is a match except the financially secure by most starndards.part. My riches are measured in experiences and memories and I feel I am on the forbes most wealthy Americans based on this. I tried the buy a house, act responsible and stay in one place for the rest of your life routine, It didn't work. I have too strong a need to see what's over the next hill to spead my life in a valley/rut/socially acceptable lifestyle..

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      oh yea...i completely forgot.....and not a bible thumper! ...we just wouldn't get along!......could be a good romp in bed tho with all those suppressed emotions and fears  and all that! ....i'd show 'em a good time....the evil side!

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         Stump Parrishposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         Evil backwards is live, I have the uncontrollable desire to evil backwards everyday of my life.

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      

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    Tusitala Tomposted 13 years ago

    We can daydream all we like, but if we've drawn a partner into our lives, it's the person who is meant to be there with us at this time.  She/He is our major catalyst in our lesson of learning how to relate with love.   That's my belief, anyway.  Oh, and we do have free will.  It's one of those Divine Dichtomies.  Fate and free will are both operating.  We can choose to walk away.
    
    That infinite intelligence we label under varying names such as God, Allah, Jehova and the like does not, according to Albert Einstein's quotation:  "God does not play dice with the universe," make any mistakes.  So why give yourself a hard time by fighting against WHAT IS. Make a choice.  Oh, yes, and choosing not to choose is also a choice.

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    libby101aposted 13 years ago

    My perfect mate would be very compatable with me! We would have a lot of things in common. He would be able to almost finish my sentences because he knows me so well. And me finish his!
    
    We could talk about anything, no matter what it is and everything will always be okay!
    
    Looking in his eyes, I could feel his love for me! And when we talk it would never be boring!
    
    Oh wait! I've found all this!

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       Stump Parrishposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       To look in their eyes and see yourself happy is the surest sign you are home that exists.

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       Fenixfanposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Sounds like you have definitely found the one Libby. Those are also the things I look for in another. Everyone should be so lucky.

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       marty1968posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I have all this also. It is amazing.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 13 years ago

    Blonde
    a poet
    funny
    missing
    wild
    unafraid
    barefoot

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    habeeposted 13 years ago

    My (almost) perfect mate is the one depicted to the left. He's smart, creative, funny, honest, protective, supportive, and compassionate. ARRRGGGHHHH!!!!

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    paradigmsearchposted 13 years ago

    

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    Mikeydoesposted 13 years ago

    I could end up liking any girl if I talk to her enough. Some of very attractive ones usually get more unattractive as I talk to them more, since they never really learned anything and only get by on looks.

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       habeeposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I LOVE the way you think! lol

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       schoolgirlforrealposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       That's very interesting. I find the unattractive men get more attractive, same thing but different

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    lichinposted 13 years ago

    maybe someone who used to be I do not really like that too pretty because "expensive treatment" but not too bad

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    Kangaroo_Jaseposted 13 years ago

    Ummmm lets see........breathing........and a heartbeat......thats a good start, lemme come back with more, later

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    prettydarkhorseposted 13 years ago

    caring, responsible like TC - not necessarily good looking - (but should approximate the looks of Hugh Jackman, (sorry blonde) or Daniel Day Lewis), LOL

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    Rajab Nsubugaposted 13 years ago

    This thread is talking of someone I know!

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    Pcunixposted 13 years ago

    At a party many years back, someone suggested that we describe our sexual fantasies.
    
    As it went around the room, various situations were put forward, with the expected stupidity from most of the men.
    
    When it came to my turn, I just looked at my wife and announced "I married my sexual fantasy."
    
    Which was and still is true, but it sure ticked off every other man there as their wives melted and cooed their approval.

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       habeeposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Great response!!

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