Now, wait a second! lol
What I want to say is,
What characteristics would a compatible and reasonably realistic be? Think hard!! (no pun intended! )
its tough to say really. although i will say lot of female hubbers here are quite nice, as i wouldn't mind dating some of them.
that's very sweet
hey, did u get the email i sent?
hmm..that's weird. it didn't show up in my email. i might've overlooked it by accident. let me recheck.
ok. Sorry about that. It's no longer as important
are you sure? if you want, i can meet you on facebook to discuss your question. i got time now really. just look me up by the same e-mail address. you still have it right?
The problem I face is that everytime I conjure up the perfect mate I run into this problem. I respect and desire intelligence but if she is smart enough to suit me she is smart enough to have nothing to do with me. Bottom line is that my perfect match is too good for me and that sucks.
a good communicater, and an empathetic personality, not selfish, or mean.....
Mate? Lol strange word. You mean partner, spouse? If so, the one I have. He suits me perfectly. And will be home in a month. Happy frog
Crazy in a cute sort of way, smart, common sense, a man's man, talented at something, looks good dressed up or down but definately has to be stylish, clean, handy, hunky, poetic, brown hair or blonde with brown undertones, brown eyes, about 5'10, broad shoulders, nice arms, strong jawline and chin, could really like to cook, this would be helpful and creative, maybe could own a Jeep, likes to travel, likes shoes but doesn't always have to wear them, clean fingernails, non-smoker, non-drinker, must love healthy food and lifestyle, would help if he was good at something that I'm not, and some guys really like to vacuum. This is weird but that could be thrown in as a bonus. Not too opinionated but good conversationalist, not a flirt or a show-off, doesn't have to prove anything. Well, that's enough for starters. Oh, and maybe British. Aussies are ok, too.
...hmmm....don't really have a list
...definitely has to be smart...that's no. 1 for me.....
...and a bit of a dark angel?
Just the way he is..loving, patient, supportive, my friend. I wouldn't think of changing anything about him.. that my spouse for me.
Smart, funny, down-to-earth, honest, trustworthy, compassionate, understanding, caring, sincere, open-minded, a good listener, supportive, sensible, healthy, in good shape, lovely appearance (of course) and personality, non-smoker, easy-going, likes to laugh a lot, doesn't take anything too seriously, even-tempered, accepts and forgives minor faults and misunderstandings, decent cook (healthy diet is important), stands up for herself..doesn't take any s**t from anyone. My best friend...
That's not too much to ask is it?
...that's quite a list...but it's all good......do they have to vaccuum too? j/k
pretty small list Tim... small ask i should say... may be you should... well get her made to order... or what ,.............haaaahaa you are man!
Yeah ..I think you're on the right track sofs. Maybe you could send me an angel, or something close to it
...okay...here's my list....LOL!
smart, smart, lover - ohhhhh yea, partner, friend, can cook really good, likes to cook together, financially stable, down to earth, relaaaaxxxxxed, likes to have fun, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc, rides a motorcycle too, doesn't sweat the small stuff, impulsive - hmmmm....that's an asset, etc etc etc, change is not a threat, has lived life, can keep up with me, loves laughing, etc etc etc, wants to experience many things, etc etc etc etc
Perfect match dot com sent me to you. Don't ever trust that site again as you can see what the results are. Everything is a match except the financially secure by most starndards.part. My riches are measured in experiences and memories and I feel I am on the forbes most wealthy Americans based on this. I tried the buy a house, act responsible and stay in one place for the rest of your life routine, It didn't work. I have too strong a need to see what's over the next hill to spead my life in a valley/rut/socially acceptable lifestyle..
oh yea...i completely forgot.....and not a bible thumper! ...we just wouldn't get along!......could be a good romp in bed tho with all those suppressed emotions and fears and all that! ....i'd show 'em a good time....the evil side!
We can daydream all we like, but if we've drawn a partner into our lives, it's the person who is meant to be there with us at this time. She/He is our major catalyst in our lesson of learning how to relate with love. That's my belief, anyway. Oh, and we do have free will. It's one of those Divine Dichtomies. Fate and free will are both operating. We can choose to walk away.
That infinite intelligence we label under varying names such as God, Allah, Jehova and the like does not, according to Albert Einstein's quotation: "God does not play dice with the universe," make any mistakes. So why give yourself a hard time by fighting against WHAT IS. Make a choice. Oh, yes, and choosing not to choose is also a choice.
My perfect mate would be very compatable with me! We would have a lot of things in common. He would be able to almost finish my sentences because he knows me so well. And me finish his!
We could talk about anything, no matter what it is and everything will always be okay!
Looking in his eyes, I could feel his love for me! And when we talk it would never be boring!
Oh wait! I've found all this!
To look in their eyes and see yourself happy is the surest sign you are home that exists.
Sounds like you have definitely found the one Libby. Those are also the things I look for in another. Everyone should be so lucky.
My (almost) perfect mate is the one depicted to the left. He's smart, creative, funny, honest, protective, supportive, and compassionate. ARRRGGGHHHH!!!!
I could end up liking any girl if I talk to her enough. Some of very attractive ones usually get more unattractive as I talk to them more, since they never really learned anything and only get by on looks.
maybe someone who used to be I do not really like that too pretty because "expensive treatment" but not too bad
Ummmm lets see........breathing........and a heartbeat......thats a good start, lemme come back with more, later
caring, responsible like TC - not necessarily good looking - (but should approximate the looks of Hugh Jackman, (sorry blonde) or Daniel Day Lewis), LOL
At a party many years back, someone suggested that we describe our sexual fantasies.
As it went around the room, various situations were put forward, with the expected stupidity from most of the men.
When it came to my turn, I just looked at my wife and announced "I married my sexual fantasy."
Which was and still is true, but it sure ticked off every other man there as their wives melted and cooed their approval.
by GypsyFootedWoman 6 years ago
What are some non physical attributes of your perfect mate?Can you describe, in a few simple terms, your desired mate? Things that have nothing to do with the physical aspects of the individual.
by Laurel Rogers 7 years ago
Oh boy...that's all I can say at the moment-have you ever felt the same sort of thing?
by ryankett 5 years ago
I would say, when the doctor tells you that your heart is too frail for the Viagra!
by Kenneth C Agudo 4 years ago
Do we really have soul mate? The person that was destined to us by God?Do you believe in soul mate? If yes then prove and explain.
by dashingscorpio 14 months ago
Ladies; Do you believe there are guys who are "too good looking" for you to date? If so, why?A recent hub was posted where the writer listed reasons why some of her past relationships had not worked out. Among the reasons she stated was "the guy was too good looking".Is there...
by Jake Frost 6 years ago
What is your perfect partner?
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