Personally, the effort by a woman to look, feel, and think sexy is not only appreciated by me, but I would argue my life's blood in everything I do.
In fact, to have those background thoughts in our lives of that one special person we adore is the definition of "living life to it's fullest"....
For me, a light see through lace, and for color...mix it up...black, white, passion purple perhaps.... my mind is wandering...
Thank you, once again, Kimberly...you're a true gift to my life...