It depends on what we're talking about. If it's cheating there are no second chances. Ever. Same with lying. There's no arguing here. If my man doesn't have the same standard of integrity I have, he's gone. So I guess no second chances. If we're talking about arguments or disagreements, there is always a way to work it out. I don't care what it is (unless it's cheating or lying but there's no chance for an argument there, it's just over), there's a way to work it out if you really love each other.