Well going by the way you put it, ladies think opposite to us dudes because they happen to be our opposites!
I don't know if you've heard this saying that when a woman says no, she means yes?
But in actual fact, ladies don't think different from guys. The only thing that makes guys think that ladies think differently is because most guys are yet to understand ladies.
When you are able to understand a girl or how a woman feels you will know that we all think alike but the only difference lies in what we define as priority.
Simply put women want love, sex and then security,
Us dudes we want, sex, love and then security.
Notice the difference?
Now go and make up fast with yo'r gurl man!