Why are Fake people awful to others and pretend to be friendly when deep down th

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   DDEposted 10 years ago

   Why are Fake people awful to others and pretend to be friendly when deep down they are just ruthless
   
   Fake people hurt others and don't  think much about it instead they enjoy what they do while the victim is hurt and feels left out of their group.

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   lburmasterposted 10 years ago

   Start at the beginning. Why are they fake? Are they hiding something? Are they trying to be something they are not? Fake people are usually fake to get something they don't have. Other people don't matter in this perspective, only their goal matters. It is being selfish.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      lburmaster  interesting answer yet so true from your perspective thank you for  answering

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   JThomp42posted 10 years ago

   Ego and selfishness. There will always be and always has been people of this sort. This is basically your bullies from school. It is probably a lack of self worth that they must treat people this way in order to make themselves feel superior. These type of people need to be avoided.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      JThomp42 thanks for taking part in this question and definitely they need to be avoided

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      JThomp42posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You are very welcome. Yes they do DDE, they are very toxic.

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      DDEposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you for taking part in this question.

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   lupineposted 10 years ago

   I agree with the first two answers, these type of people have their own problems and are selfish, inconsiderate, and toxic to be around. They don't even like themselves, they have life issues and try to cover it up, or not think about it by being hurtful to others. I know a person like this...others do what she wants and don't try to say anything to upset her, because if they do, she will let lose. Very manipulative, better to not be around this type of person. Of course, when this type of person, is around someone they are trying to impress, or get close to...they can be so nice; but, like you said, it's fake. They are doing it for a reason, to get  something they want.

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      DDEposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You said it he best, and thanks for taking part in this question

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      lupineposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      You are welcome...thanks for choosing me as "best answer".

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   Klmathistadposted 10 years ago

   Some may be perceived as fake due to lacking empathy for others. This could also be due to Mental Health issues. We need to stop judging others so quickly and try to identify the root of the behavior. Sometimes there is such pain in their lives they know of no other coping skills for negative emotions. I tend to follow the belief by Randall Terry,
   
   Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

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      DDEposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you for showing interest in this answer.

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