mathira

Hi,

I am from south India and my only daughter is a software professional.

I had always been fascinated by the intricacies of marriage. My interest in relationship problems made me start a blog solely dedicated to solving many of your marriage issues.

‘The hour before dawn is the darkest’ these were the words which had me going when I underwent harrowing experiences in my life. Life always opens many doors for you when you feel you have reached a dead end. Catch hold of opportunities and make the most of it.

Though my husband is no more, I learned the beauty of selfless love through him. He was such a caring and loving husband and it was the love we had for each other that enabled us to sail through the terrible trauma we experienced in our married life.

· Marriage is such beautiful relationship, isn’t it?

· But why do modern marriages struggle to survive?

· Why does love lose its sheen so soon?

· Is it ok to divorce when you feel your marriage is not working?

Many such questions often plague me when I see young couples throwing away their marriage for innocuous reasons. I have written various hubs about self motivation. My hubs now concentrate on marriage problems as I want couples to enjoy their married life to the full.

“A long-lasting marriage is built by two people who believe in -and live by- the solemn promise they made.”-Darlene Schacht

My blog http://breezystorm.com/ deals with many relationship problems you face in your day to day married life and I pray that my hubs and blog posts can make couples think again when they feel their marriage is a failure.

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How to be intimate with your husband? Intricate tips!

You must be emotionally intimate with your husband to have his true love. When you know his inner needs you become close to him. Unconditional support and caring attitude is what he wants from you.

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How to balance work and family? Tight rope walking !

With the world turning competitive you struggle to balance your work and family. Work is important for your success and family is important for your happiness. Learn to balance both and enjoy life.

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How to be a good and understanding wife

Good qualities of a wife makes her husband happy and fulfilled. You might be successful professionally, but your true happiness lies in adjusting and tolerating the small defects your husband .

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How to handle a controlling husband? Try understanding him!

When your husband suffers from complexities it makes him try to control you. Life with such a person can be taxing. Understanding and removing his insecurity is the only way to make his fear go away.

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How important is money in marriage?

You feel that money can bring happiness into your marriage. Your mad chase for money robs your marriage of happiness. Money is just a means to survive and cannot be an alternative to love.

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How to deal with seven year’s itch in marriage?

Seven year's itch can be avoided if you view your spouse as someone who makes your life wholesome and not someone who makes it troublesome. Relationship with your spouse should thrive as years go by.

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