Turn Down the Volume On Whining, Criticsm and Negativety Please.

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   Eaglekiwiposted 15 years ago

   I will.
   Do you want too as well. If you dont already ,then way to go.
   It does get to you after a while, like a funny smell you cant quite figure out where its coming from.
   
   No I dont expect daisies and fields of fluffy baby lambs, I just feel very sorry for some people who will never respond to criticism but get hurt all the same, and silently withdraw, and more assertive personalities pat themselves on the back or high 5 a fellow hubber.
   No I am not criticising assertiveness, strong opinions even ,just dont use names (isnt that a personal attack?)
   Name-calling ,yea leave that in elementary school,we are big people now.
   Just because some people are not considered one of the 'cool hubbers' low on the ground with virtual 'friends' or 'kudos' or are not established hubbers, or God forbid, English is not their mother tongue, dont whine or make fun of them, email them or be a little more sensitive with your rants ,jibs n jibes.
   
   We never know what struggles or hardship a person has in real life and I think its so mean to criticise distructivly.
   
   When I joined Hubpages ,it said it was for everyone and I read the rules for the forum ,but im guilty of straying at times ,getting caught up in the emotion ,but if I hurt someone I want to quit or at least change direction.
   I dont expect my post to be exciting or popular but I feel better I expressed some reality (for me)
   
   
   http://hubpages.com/help/forum_rules

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   lrohnerposted 15 years ago

   Very well said, Eagle. I'm with you.

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   cindyvineposted 15 years ago

   Exactly, Eagle!

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      Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      well I see me being unfanned faster than I can type this,but I feel better for gettin that off my chest...thanks for the heads up...

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   \Brenda Scullyposted 15 years ago

   3 cheers for Eaglekiwi....... needed to be said, and not a better woman to say it.......  Let's be nice, at least today ha ha

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      Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      ..well Im not a smart man...but I know what love is...
      
      Forrest Gump day
      
      Wait til the next shift arrives if Im in the shower ,Brenda just shove some food under their noses and tell 'em to chill baby,lol

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   nikitasnow2posted 15 years ago

   you are right, and I dont mean to be insultive, but some people grow old but never grow up.

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   Uninvited Writerposted 15 years ago

   Well said. I fanned you by the way
   
   I think I only get snarky with people when they ignore the forum rules like creating posts just to tell us about their latest hub when it tells you not to on the page where you post. Doing that once is sort of understandable, but when they continue to do it that is deliberate.
   
   I don't resort to name calling...although I have been tempted. What name calling I have ever done has been in joking...although some have taken it the wrong way.

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      Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      oh you did! great ,thats quite an honor
      yes and its right they be told quickly as Ive seen you and others too,no fuss etc.
      I can be just as mean as the next person if I want, and im not thin skinned, however its not something I get any joy out of and thought well nice never hurt anyone

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   aquaseaCreativeposted 15 years ago

   Well I would be sad if the forum did become all rainbows and kittens -- i kinda like the strong views and banter. I'm not supporting true nastiness or bullying, but in this kind of foum you do have to withstand the odd harsh word.
   
   As a newcomer, it seems very supportive.

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      Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Rainbows Rock ,lol
      And yes HB is supportive
      Welcome to the clan

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   Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years ago

   Great thread for me to wake up to. I with you too.

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      Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Nellie you are one of the hubbers who inspire me
      
      Great day isnt it (low humidity) Im smilin too

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   AsherKadeposted 15 years ago

   I have one that's always negaive to me, but eaglekiwi told me that he's that way with everyone, so shrug it off.

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      Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Sorry Asher Im not sure who you are meaning ? but hey if it worked,good for you

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         AsherKadeposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         I won't use his name (to protect the not-so-innocent), but it was a while back, and you were so thoughtful and cheered up my day, so I joined your club!

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            Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            Im honored,stay cool

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    Janettaposted 15 years ago

    Very well said, Eagle

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       Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       aww tanks janetta

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    Beth100posted 15 years ago

    Very well spoken!  I'm right behind you on this one!

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    Eaglekiwiposted 15 years ago

    ..thankyou Beth

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    RGrafposted 15 years ago

    Thank you for posting this.  I like to try to get along with everyone.  If I emotionally disagree, i don't respond.  But so many seem to want to cause trouble and I run from those posts.

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    Ghost32posted 15 years ago

    Eaglekiwi, I just "Fanned" you, so if you do get "Unfanned" for this fine Hub, you've at least got a partial refill.

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    Hack Retisposted 15 years ago

    I don't generally listen to whining, it's like a low level hum I've successfully tuned out.
    
    What was that?

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    LondonGirlposted 15 years ago

    You smell!

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    pgrundyposted 15 years ago

    I'm with you eagiekiwi. I stopped responding to hateful comments on my hubs, and this morning I find a comment from someone else mad at me for not responding to a hateful comment. lol!
    
    Too funny. I guess sometimes we just have to laugh.

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    annvansposted 15 years ago

    Well, it's good to see some positive stuff going on in the forums today.

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    Zsuzsy Beeposted 15 years ago

    Yeah for the positive vibes

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    annvansposted 15 years ago

    Keep this one going soze I can add all ya'll to my fan list, lol.

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