My public apology to my friends

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   Pacal Votanposted 15 years ago

   If you are someone who likes me or consider me a friend, this is something you deserve to know:
   
   http://hubpages.com/hub/Meet-the-new-me
   
   Pacal Votan
   Haunty

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      AEvansposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      No apology necessary like I said on your hub " A friend is a friend until the end." Nothing has changed for me.

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   rmcrayneposted 15 years ago

   I was curious about your post and your hub.  I read the hub and at the end felt like the punchline was missing.  I was expecting a big personal revelation like "I'm gay" or "I'm a drunk" or "I'm an addict" or some such. 
   
   So I guess your punch line was, that among other things, you're going to stop telling what I call "Sweet little lies" so as not to hurt someone's feelings.  (Like discussed in the 1st video.)
   
   If this is the case, you may want to go back and reframe for context in the first and last paragraphs.  Just a suggestion.

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      Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      No. Sweet little lies will be the hardest to get rid of. I'm not really in the habit of hurting with words. If I feel I would I keep my mouth shut.
      
      And I didn't really lie to people. I just let them go with their assumptions about me without telling them they were false assumptions. So it's more like deception by doing nothing.
      
      But then there were occasions when I did tell lies so that people would accept me.

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   cosetteposted 15 years ago

   i have another hubpages account- SquigglesMcBeebee. most people don't know that because he never talks in the forums. but he never does anything naughty or tries to fool anyone, and i don't think you ever did either. when this hub challenge is over, Squiggles will start hubbing his own brand of hubs.
   
   i don't know who Haunty is but i have noticed quite a few hubbers here have said they have lots of other Hubpages identities, not just one, so i don't think you're bad or anything.
   
   i think you're very brave.

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   Cagsilposted 15 years ago

   Thanks cosette.
   
   It is always nice to know there are people who deal with split personalities here at hubpages. It explains a lot.

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   rmcrayneposted 15 years ago

   I'm a firm believer in the sweet little lie.  THere are times when I see no purpose in being honest, knowing that it will only hurt someone's feelings.  Unnecessarily in my view.  Contrary to the first video on your hub. 
   
   I'm a habitual offender of lies of omission too.  Definitely not worth all the anxiety of coming out as a non-believer to my [large extended] family.  Can't imagine ever telling my mom nor the aunts and uncles.

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      Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      That first video. The guys book is called Radical Honesty. I'm sure he wouldn't look very convincing if he were to promote sweet lies just because they are benevolent. As for me, I think there is always enough good to be found in people if you want to praise them and one doesn't need to make things up. But of course, there are situations when it's more important to make the person feel well that to be rigorously and inflexibly inclined to cleave to the truth just because it's the only truth. In my hub, I was thinking of a different sort of lie, the one that you create so that YOU could feel or look better not the other person. It's above all selfish.

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   Philentposted 15 years ago

   Everybody have their own reason for creating another account. Some have it to focus on a certain topic, some to have fun on the forums, some to start anew. Whatever your reason might be, I believe you are a good person and it is nice to meet you once again.

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   earnestshubposted 15 years ago

   I read the hub and left a comment there.

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   prettydarkhorseposted 15 years ago

   you are brave enough to admit it, so that is something....just dont fool yourself again lololol, anyway, people here will always be there for you......like me..

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   Pacal Votanposted 15 years ago

   Thank you, all of you. I am not a notorious liar I think. But I'd also like to say that when I said I lied to people I didn't mean I lied because I started another account. As you said, there is nothing wrong with that.

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    emievilposted 15 years ago

    Hi Pacal. And here some hubbers said you and froggy are one  and the same . Whoever you are and whatever your hubber name is, you will always have lots of friends here in HP.

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       Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you for the compliment, but I and frog are not one and the same. She is a much better person and I'd really not like to drag her into this.

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    CabinGirl.posted 15 years ago

    There is no need for an apology, I love you for who you are and always will !

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       Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you. Now that I know you better, I must say I wronged you in the past. I'm sorry for that. The same goes for you love wise.
       
       And have you got your aquarium yet?

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          CabinGirl.posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Next week my friend, making a space for it and worry not about wronging me, not many know the real me

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             Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             I think it's contagious. Luci started it and then I got a turtle too and now you're getting your aquarium back.
             
             Been having the turtle for some time now and I have to say it's interesting. I expected a close relationship between me and my pet, but he is afraid of me and when I pick him up he uses his claws (long ones).
             But I think it's a matter of time. Last time I tried he let me slightly caress his head.

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    Still shocked in Ohio. LOL

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       Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       shocked that pv and h are the same? but you know neither of the avatars of really a picture of me.

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    I am leaving and pulling all of my hubs now. I quit HP. I can't keep up with all this shit. I am too disheartened to continue. I cannot trust anyone anymore. Alas, such sadness to depart when  I was having so much fun too. g'bye

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       Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       ralwus, that's great because then you can spend a whole lot of more time on Who's loving you.

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       XTASISposted 15 years agoin reply to this

           Really ? Are you leaving ?
       and I was waiting for your bite !

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          Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          He is not. He was kidding with me.

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             tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             hi pacal !!good to see you !!

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                Pacal Votanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                it's good to see you too.
                I just listened to Debi again. She is very nice.

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                   tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                   well, thank you ! You can look her on facebook and be friends ! she will not reject you if you say you're a friend of mine

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    I was just there, it's pretty dead. Missin something.LOL

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    I'm upset because I also find that Xtasis is the trolly tantrum whom I also find out is a woman. sheesh! When will it all end?

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       tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       
       xtasis is waiting for your bite !

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    Well I may bite now. I suppose darkside and Pam Grundy are one and the same too. I thought I'd die when I found out cindyvine was actually goldentoad! oops!

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    badcompany77posted 15 years ago

    It's so damn confusing !

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       tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       look who's talking !

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          badcompany77posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Don't you start, I am still coming to terms with you

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             tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             Be my guest ! I will be waiting 4 U !

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       ralwusposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Yeah, well you started it all. LOL

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          badcompany77posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Ok so when I was a kid I always wanted to be a Captain or a Doctor, we were a poor family and now at last I get to act out my childhood dreams, what's a guy to do, tis better than a tampon up the plum

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    This place just keeps coming up with the best stuff there is I tell ya.

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    Redneckmanposted 15 years ago

    I joined this site to meet real people as its just me and my old lady here in the woods. I was hoping to find love !

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       ralwusposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       You want love around here go to the religion thread

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          Redneckmanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Thank you Pastor, I like your new age nudest church look, see you on Sunday but in the words of the song " Leave your hat on "

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          Jewelsposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          You won't find any there, sorry.

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       tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       with that freaking face ??
       Don't think so

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          Redneckmanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Hey lady I am the sexiest looking guy in my local bar !

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             tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             I wouldn't go there then! gosh! It would be a nightmare !

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                Redneckmanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                Dont fight it lady I know you want me, feel free to mail me if you want, I have pics of me in my swimmin togs if you are interested

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                   tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                   
                   I will have wet dreams for sure !

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                      Redneckmanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                      

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    that's why I told him the religion thread.

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    ralwusposted 15 years ago

    that and my penis bag

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       HealthTipposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Bit cocky ain't ya

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    prettydarkhorseposted 15 years ago

    lololol......I love my stay here at HP!people are all intelligent, interesting and amusing. I wish we have a psychologist hubber...for those who have schizo, but I admire them for their ability to change.....just enjoying reading all comments is all...
    
    to ralwus: hope you change your mind you gonna stay at HP, read some of your articles and they are good ones...

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       ralwusposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       As Pacal said, I was lying. And now to read more of wimmins wet dreams, I wanna hear more from Tantrum.

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          tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Well, I'm sure you would like to hear more. but I would be banned in the process !

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             ralwusposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             email me:D

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                tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                naughty man ! Maybe you get a heart attack. I don't want to be responsible !

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                Pachuca213posted 15 years agoin reply to this

                I am hurt...and I thought I was your one and only C.C. ! J/k!
                You just a playa baby!  play on!

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