What's your biggest flaw? The one your loved ones have to put up with?

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   klarawieckposted 14 years ago

   I'll start!
   
   I am extremely forgetful and distracted. I forget everyone's birthday, anniversaries, forget to make payments, go to appointments. I have tried to keep agendas up to date, but I lose them all the time!
   
   What's yours?

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   Stevennix2001posted 14 years ago

   i have a tendency to be a bit insecure sometimes to where i'm always affraid the girl will get tired of me and leave.  That and in real life, I have a lot of trouble expressing my thoughts and opinions, as i was raised to never speak unless spoken to, since my father told me emotions are sign of weakness.  of course, a good friend of mine taught me different, but it's hard to break a habit that you've been following pretty much your whole life.  you know what i mean?

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I get what you mean. But you seem like a nice guy. You need to be yourself. You'll find a great woman!

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         Stevennix2001posted 14 years agoin reply to this

         thanks klara. i appreciate you saying that. well for what it's worth, i think your husband is a very lucky guy.

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            klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Thanks Steve. I think he'll agree with you.

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   King Larryposted 14 years ago

   My flaw is that I have a tendency to be brutally honest.  Pinhead! (looks at stevennix2001 when saying that)

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You are quite famous too King Larry!

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         King Larryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         really for what?  i'm known for a lot of things.  the world's greatest lover. the world's best looking man. the world's smartest man, and the bad boy of hubpages and etc.

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            klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            The latter

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               King Larryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               oh that.  yeah, and don't you forget it either!  besides, we all know im the coolest guy around here, hands down!

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                  klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Well, it's nice meeting you King Larry. I'm the crazy psychic Klara.

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                     King Larryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     your a psychic huh?  oh really.  does that mean you can read into the future and read minds?  if so, then i bet you can't figure out what my REAL NAME is.

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                        klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        Judging by the cigar, I'd say your last name is Castro?

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                           King Larryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           nope, that's not even close. hell, king larry is not even my real name, as this is a sock puppet account.  lol.

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                              klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                              But you must be the son of C3PO and Castro. Yeap. That's it. I'm a great psychic! Aren't I?
                              

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                                 King Larryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                 yep, you got that right. they were my parents, and i was born in mexico.  hehehehe. damn, your good!

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                                    klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                                    Thanks KL. Be careful. I hear they are sending all mejicans back! Orale!

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   Sweetsusiegposted 14 years ago

   I think my biggest problem is getting easily involved with things causing me to forget to do other things.  For instance I like to sew, I get involved deeply in a project and forget to clean the house or cook dinner.  It's not so much of a problem now the kids are grown, but when they were younger yeah that was problem. 
   
   It's hard when you get creative and become deeply involved to just shut that off because of a clock.
   
   The same goes for my writing, I get started then someone wants something so I have to stop and at times can lose that 'thought' that I was trying to put down. 
   
   It's hard to keep a good balance.

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I can relate to that.

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   King Larryposted 14 years ago

   they are?  (pulls out a bat) who do they think i am?  those scumbags. i say we mutiny!  who's with me?!?

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I might be mistaken by a Mejican, so yes... I'm with you. Let me get my frying pan!

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   mega1posted 14 years ago

   my biggest flaw?  hmmmmmmm. . .  I lie alot.  a lot!

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      
      
      
      

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   mega1posted 14 years ago

   yeah, like, right now my hunky bf is waiting for me on the bed.  He has covered himeself with rose petals and he has an open bottle of champagne waiting -  I really must go!  I'll be back later to let you know how our evening goes!

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      klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      You go, Mega! Have fun! Uh, no need to share the details. I believe you.

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   SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years ago

   ...hmmmm....i've become more and more relaxed about 'stuff'...some could see that as a fault....so that must be it..... i used to have to make an effort to not 'sweat the small stuff'....now it all just comes naturally - not much effort anymore...while some people around me seem to take so many things waaaaaaayyyyy too seriously and it seems to get worse as they get older.....i say reeeelllaaaaaaxxxxx...and look all around you, stop to smell the roses and all that....

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   sofsposted 14 years ago

   Though I am slow to warm up to people, when I take a liking to someone I get too attached  .. it is a little too heavy I guess..I have been told so .. a great flaw.. I am learning to keep a respectable distance.

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      SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      ...too bad sofs...'cuz you are probably just being you...and some probably can't handle directness...sometimes people get confused by a person's warmth...and they aren't sure if it's real i guess...i don't know...just my thoughts!

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         sofsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         You are so kind,  yeah I am being me.. but some people can't handle too much I guess!  they feel awkward .. that is what I am told!

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    hanging outposted 14 years ago

    i have a wart on my leg...
    
    
    
    SEE.....
    
    
    
    
    but no loved one has to put up with it

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       SomewayOuttaHereposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       ha ha ha ha ha ha ha !!!!!!  i love your smiling frog!
       
       back at ya....I gotta get off the 'puter tonite!
       
       

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          sofsposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          you are tickling the poor creature to death!! Let  go,   let goo !!! 

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    Denise Handlonposted 14 years ago

    Funny!   Mine is my CLUTTER   (or is it my late arrivals?)

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    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    I get jealous easily! I don't show it, but then I keep it in my mind.
    
    other thing is that my friends would always say I have to think about myself first, sometimes I care too much that I forgot about myself. It is true, I just thought about it.

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    CASE1WORKERposted 14 years ago

    my untidyness

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    ChristinaScibonaposted 14 years ago

    I bite my nails and this drives my husband crazy!

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    DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years ago

    Im flaky, forgetful, distracted, all over the place. One of the first things I can remember my mother ever saying to me..in a deeply exasperated and tired tone..."you would loose your head if it wasnt attached"...and its true. I can forget what I am talking about halfway thru a sentence..it drives my husband NUTS. I am insecure and overly sensitive and have bizzare phobias...for example.. I wont walk into my house while a car is driving by, I dont want the driver to know where I live. I have panic attacks and anxiety issues resulting in me sometimes not leaving my house for weeks. I hate going to new places or doing something new by myself. Once, I sat for two hours at a resturant, needing to use the bathrrom...really bad..but I didnt know where it was and I didnt want to look for it, I was afriad I would look stupid...stuff like that.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago

    My bluntness.
    It is not a flaw, but it does drive people crazy!  People don't like to hear the truth anymore, they want to be lied to.  They only get upset if the lie is not complementary.

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       DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I only get mad if soemone bluntly tells me something awful about me, when I never even asked their opinion. If I ask somebody something, tho, I expect the truth. Most of my true friends are absurdly blunt. I ALWAYS know when my butt looks big. 

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          mega1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          blunt?  is that like when I say - hey, clara - having a bad hair day, huh! 

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             DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             sort of. I really do like to be told the truth..WHEN I ASK. I dont give flying fig if you think my hair is ugly, if I havent asked your opininon. Ya know?
             
             example..hubby announces "you look like shit" ...I am NOT going to be impressed, call it honest, blunt, or whatever.
             
             I say.."hi honey, how does this look?"
             "oh, fine baby, you always look good" I go out in public looking like a complete moron because hubby wasnt truthfull..I am NOT going ot be happy
             
             "hey honey, does this look ok fo ryour office paty?"
             "well...I think its going to be more casual then that, you look overdressed."
             
             Truthfull..without beign a jerk. Thats good.

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             klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             ALL THE TIME!!! I'm like a female version of Edward Scissorhands!

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       klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       And that's where Mega comes in!

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    mega1posted 14 years ago

    that wasn't true!  about my lying!  hahaha
    
    but I do make up some fabulous fictions!  like the bf with the rose petals and champagne!  it was really nothing like that - he was here, of course, but he was watching the game, drinking beer and eating pretzels and he never got close to my bed.
    
    can you believe it!? 

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    mega1posted 14 years ago

    personally, I never ask how I look - I know how stupid or great I look - because usually I don't much care how I look.  That's a big flaw.  People don't like to go out in public with me and my big shirts.
    
    But here's the thing . . .  telling lies is awesome!  Especially when no one catches you!  its like, you know, free entertainment!  Always people come over and say, where's your crazy sister?  you know, the one who lives with you and drops stuff out the window on people's heads?  and then I'm in trouble.  But its worth it.
    
    fun is not easy to come by, otherwise.
    
    I would probably tell you you look awesome in some drabby outfit just so when you go out people will avoid you and I will watch and laugh.  That's another major flaw.
    
    jeez, I should never have answered this thread!    oh well.

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       DoorMattnomoreposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I can so see the humor in that. Sort of a little like rearranging the grocery store? ya know..tampons on the beer..ahhahahahaha
       
       I would so hang out with you. Ok funny story, I have this bitch of a sister in law. she thinks shes super hot and way smarter then everybody esle. WELL one day, my other sis in law(she is married to my hubbys bro..so we are both 'in laws') was visiting 'beeotch', and tehe had to go on a beer run. When they arrived at the store, the bad sis hopped out of the car all strutting her stuff, but her shirt was tucked into her thong....and the good sis never said a word. Let her strut her stuff all thru the store with her thong all up on the outside of her shirt!!!

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          mega1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          a perfect example of "bad fun" - the kind that doesn't really do any real harm, but is so bad!  I am badder on paper than in person.  I can think of things to say and do that in real life I would never, in a million years, actually do.  But there have been times . . . and I always get caught!  always!  its funny.  I'm so good for such a long time and then the minute I step outta line - whammo! busted!  When I was in 3rd grade my girlfriend and I went to the dimestore but I didn't have enough money to get the fingernail polish and the other stuff I wanted, so I put the polish in my pocket.  Sure enough - busted!  They called my mom!  omg, it was terrible, but when she arrived I was laughing hysterically! She said later that was what really made her so mad!  I got such a whipping!  I can't remember a time when I had more fun getting in trouble.  crazy.

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             Denise Handlonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             That's funny--I stole a box of gold stars when I was in kindergarten b/c my dad refused to buy them for me for when I played school.  So when he found out he drove me back to the store and I had to return them to the manager.  It definitely taught me never to do that again.  Humiliating.

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          klarawieckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Uh... That happened to me in Arizona while attending a Powwow. Not cool... not cool at all!

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             Denise Handlonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             What happened to you in AZ?  You stole something???? 

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    King Larryposted 14 years ago

    my other flaw is im too nice of a guy sometimes. like just the other day i was beating the crap out of a guy because he owed me money, and he asked me to stop and i did, so i gave him another week to pay me back the money.  figuring he'd learn his lesson. now that son of biatch skipped the country.  damn it. king larry has gotten soft.

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