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How To Solve The Problem Wisely

Updated on March 11, 2010

We life in this beautiful world with many problem. It can't separated from our life. For me the problem is a gift form God. And God gave the problem to us to show his love. With the problem we can more close to the God and pray a lot. We have to grateful with all the problem in our life. With the hope it could increase our spirituality and try to find the solution. I think God doesn't want us to be a passive person. We must active to find the solution beside praying. We should happy in any situation, even though it was sad. That's to show our grateful to God.

Back to topic. I have a "weapon" to solve all the problem in life. And I will use many case, to represent the problem we have. I hope we can develop and practice for other problems. And I believe we can do that. Trust me!

Bad Mood

Lazy to work, there is no idea to work and we can't be creative, there is no passion in doing daily activity. To overcome bad mood is relaxed and doing the light things before the main work. For example, take a walk for a moment, looking for a new "scenery", reading a magazine or listening to music.

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Lazy to work

  • Try to create new environment or doing experiment with different things. Buy table new table accessories and place it in different position. Wearing different clothes and not usual than before. If this not really work, try to visit new restaurant for lunch and go to this place together with co-work.
  • Change the routine is not only in the workplace or in the office, so that passion to work always on top position, change the routine before leaving and after work. when we used to get up at six in the morning, change to five. or use the spare time with sports.
  • If we want to improve the spirit on work, concentration in studied, try to wear yellow clothing or lit a yellow candle at night

Why she ignored me

This is a problem when this happen in the relationship, this is for dating or marriage relationship. It looks painful when our partner not ignored us. How to solve this problem. Tell that we love her through praise, smiling, listen and touch her gently. usually a man will be tempted by the eye, while the women will be tempted by the ears.  Try to say what we want with the best performance. .

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Problem with cooking

If we are not usual in cooking and we have to cook at that time, it like the world will end soon. And this is become a big problem. This is the task of women. but there are many women who can not cook at all. This is where man role can be shown. But I found many hubbers as a good chef beside as a housewife. It shown with a lot hub about delicious recipes. Can not cook does not mean can not serve something delicious. try the simple tips below:

  • How to make the the instant coffee more exotic. Mix the cinnamon while hot water poured into the cup and lift before it getting cold. We can also add the whipped cream as topping with cocoa powder on top.
  • If you want called professional chef. serve the food on the hot plate. Wrap the plate with a clean damp cloth and heat in the microwave for 30 seconds.
  • Arrange the fold napkin on the table. This ornament will make the table look more beautiful and comfortable.
  • If you don't have snacks. don't worry. Cut small pieces your favorite bar chocolate, place it on the biscuits. heat both in the microwave. This is become a different snacks, namely chocolate-covered biscuits.
  • The last choice if this not work out, we can learn about cooking by online course or try the recipes from friend and family. If you have spare time try to watch Rachael Ray show in television. With the big hope it can give us inspiration. Or try many recipes on hubpages. I found delicious recipes  over there.  Cooking class is the last option. We can practice directly. 

When he was having an affair

Affair, of course, very painful for anyone. How to solve this problem. Check this out, below.

  • Avoid making decisions when emotional explosiveness. We need a time to think about what happened and what will happen next.
  • When symptoms of affair will happen, see what the trigger of the affair, At least give your time for a week. This way we can explore what happened from any information than only from the confession.
  • Forgiving is not easy and takes time. but to start all over again, nice to try. Start by doing something more intimate that makes us feel comfortable with it.
  • Talk about what happened. consider the hidden problem which is really important but neglected to talk about.

Dry hands skin

Soak your hands with warm water that had been given olive oil for 10 minutes, then use a moisturizer. Avoid contact with detergents that can make irritated the hands skin. When going to sleep tonight then use moisturizing cream which contains water. Do in few days regularly.

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Afraid to lead a meeting

This is related with how to communicate to others or speak in front of public or many people.  The solution like:

  • Try to wear green clothes and combined with red color. Other person will think us as a reliable leader. Green color make us calm,while the red color made us felt have a power and a full energy. And made people appreciate us.
  • If you don’t have a self confidence in lead a meeting. We can imagine that they were small children who learning to talk.
  • Meetings opened with light humor that makes people laugh. so the meeting can begin with a smile on the face of every person.

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A cold drink not always can be refreshing body. Because the energy contained in a cold drink is so powerful that can make body balance disturbed. Hot beverages are also not good for your health, because the kidneys are resistant to all things hot and cold. So, the solution is drinking warm water like the herbal tea can stimulate energy.

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We don’t have any money

Saving pennies in piggy banks that can not be opened. Don’t be shy doing this. Save money in easily forgotten place but easy to find. Folding money with tape under the desk.  When we are experiencing financial crisis, unexpected money is ready to help you.

Weak, tired, listless

Stimulate mind through aromatherapy fragrance. Mix two drops of peppermint oil, six drops of eucalyptus oil, two drops of ginger oil, two drops of cinnamon oil, vegetables, and 60 drops of oil, then use to massage the shoulders. We will feel more refreshed, more focused and ready for activities.

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Always snacking

When we feel hungry when going to sleep, it was a sign we are less intake. we should improve the pattern of lunch and dinner, get our eating enough for the needs of the body. Stop snacking cake and chocolate and change it with foods containing protein, which takes longer for digestion. so we don't hungry at night.

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Face does not shine

Having a beautiful face is a dream for a woman and handsome face is a dream for man. But all were not enough. There are many problems around the face, like acne and other skin problems. How to get a glowing skin and the face always shine. I think this is not only for face but all the body. You can following these tips, Like:

  • Breakfast, it proof that many people who have breakfast regularly and consume the food which have high calories at breakfast felt healthier and happy.
  • Consume fish. Salmon or tuna contain omega-3 which can protect us from heart disease and prevent diabetic in old age.
  • Eating grapes. This fruit contains anti-oxidants.

  • Eat wheat bread. Wheat can reduce cholesterol. We can also consume oatmeal. And replace chocolate with a wheat cereal for a snack.

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With all case I have conclusion. We still doing the best to solve the problem. You can see below:

  • Patient. every problem there must be a solution, though complicated.

  • Using brain. creativity often comes when we're desperate. So, open his eyes, ears and use your mind as much as possible when we are facing problems. resolution often comes unexpectedly.

  • Focus. Don’t think many problem. Try to solve one by one. if our minds are divided. automatic we can not concentrate and give full attention to the problem.

  • Free mind. too forced ourselves to solve the problem is not good. because our minds are still complicated. try to empty the mind and give attention to other fun things.

  • Praying. Any problem can not be separated from interference God.  We may try to solve all the problem, but do not forget to pray.

Related hub:

  • How To Reach The Happiness

    I think everyone want to life happy. We all life once in this beautiful world. We will happy when we are success. Do everyone felt success in their life? Sometimes we don’t know what is the success means. It’s hard to be success. Do our life colorful or flat like the other day?
  • Tips To Overcome Failure

    There are many reason why people failure. Such as, fired from the company, abandoned by a loved one, breakup, businesses destroyed. Many people suffer when they fired from their work. Because financial crisis. Many company was collapse and bankrupt. Similar conditions experienced by a someone who facing divorce or separation in a relationship.
  • Please, Don't Do This Things

    I like something about psychology, motivation and talking about social problem. Maybe this is my soul as a teacher. And like give suggestion or advice. Actually this life a complicated, There are so many problem in life. Such as relationship, financial, spiritual, and so on. Sometimes it connected with happiness. Try to ask your self, are you happy?
  • Benefits of Laughing

    Life will be more cheerful if we laugh often. Make all things become funny. Now I will tell you the secret behind laughing. laughing is the way for us for long life. The fact is laughing stay away for us fro stress. Meet old friend and sharing about funny story. And sometimes old memories make us laughing and this is make us happy.
  • How Treat Emotions in Life

    We were created by God as the most perfect creature in the world. How do we use the big gift for ourselves and others around us. We are surrounding by the people who care about us. We can't separated from them. As a social beings. In dealing with other people sometimes take the emotion. Emotion also have a good impact for us. Depends on how do we bring that emotion in our life.


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      prasetio30 6 years ago from malang-indonesia

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      vvsvvs 6 years ago

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      prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

      My friend, Fluffy77. Thanks for share your thought about this topic, I am glad this hub useful for you and you want to follow my advice. Your comment really appreciated. Cheers...

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      Fluffy77 7 years ago from Enterprise, OR

      With low economy and fewer jobs, stress is so big today. This was a very great topic and thanks for doing it. We all should be taking some tips from your advise here with this a bit more. Useful, voted you up.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      thanks a.l. laurice for share your thought about this topic. I am glad you liked this hub. I agree with you that anythings comes from God, including the problem.

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      a.l. laurice 8 years ago from United States

      This is a lot of good advice for just one hub! To look at a problem as a gift from God is great wisdom--thanks for sharing it.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you Sandy for giving a comment here. I am glad this hub useful for us. have a nice day.

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      Sandy Mertens 8 years ago from Wisconsin, USA

      So much advice here. Thank you.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      thanks Internetwriter62 for your second coming to my hub. I am impressed with all your comment. Thanks for your attention and appreciation about this topic. I hope it open our eyes that there are many problem out there. With the big hope we can solve all the problem wisely, without hurt other people. Have a nice day.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you shazwellyn for stopping by. I hope you always solve the problem wisely to achieve the happiness in life. Thank you very much.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks borge_009 for coming to this hub and share your thought about this topic. I am glad this hub useful for you. Let's face all the problem wisely.

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      Internetwriter62 8 years ago from Marco Island, Florida

      You are a very wise man Prasetio30, You have some excellent solutions to many of life's questions. It is true, problems can become blessings if we approach them wisely. I especially like your advise on relationships. Women do respond to what they hear, that is so true. Excellent Hub and very wisely written.

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      shazwellyn 8 years ago from Great Britain

      Some kindly and wise advice. Well done x

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      borge_009 8 years ago from Philippines

      This is such an interesting and inspiring hub. The informations you have given us are truly useful. Thanks

      for sharing this to us.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you very much, Angela. I am impressed with your comment. I am proud with this, my work has a special place in your heart. I can't reply it and I believe God knows it. thanks for always follow and update my hub. I hope all your problem will end and you have the right way to solve all the problem. God loves you, Angela.


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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks my man Mystique1957 for share your comment. There are a lot of problem around us, when we can solve the first problem it give us spirit to solve the other problem. I think you have experience about that. You are really my brother. God bless you!


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      Angela Blair 8 years ago from Central Texas

      Prasetio30 - you are always such an inspiration to me and I thank you. Best, Sis

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      Mystique1957 8 years ago from Caracas-Venezuela

      My brother Prasetio...

      Excellent hub! Very good advices,friend! There is a lot of truth in this hub! Thanks for sharing!

      warmest regards and blessings,


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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks michiganman567 for coming and thank you for supporting this hub. I'll do the best for us. I am glad still at the straight line.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks Cheeky Girl for dropping by. I am glad that my advice useful for you. I am really impressed. God bless you.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Janny, I hope by reading this hub we can open our eyes that problem is not something scary but it real and we have facing it wisely. have a nice day.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Hello, you always accepted here. I hope with the simple case above could answer our problem, when it probably happen to us. thank you very much.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you very much entertianmentplus for giving your time to visit this hub. I hope you could be a wise person in solve the problem.

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      michiganman567 8 years ago from Michigan

      Thanks for all of the information Prasetio. You could write a hub on every topic listed. Thanks for being straight to the point.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks, Ann Nonymous for coming to this hub and giving beautiful moment. I hope this hub can inspiring us and solve the problem wisely. Gob bless you!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Your welcome, Ken R.Bell. The wisdom comes from ourselves and we try to made it work. Nice comment.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks,pamela. When we can solve the problem. it's the beautiful of life and the best moment. That's nice to try. have a nice day!

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      Cassandra Mantis 8 years ago from UK and Nerujenia

      Wow, this is a great advice hub! Really like it, some great info here!

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      JannyC 8 years ago

      Nice advice and versitile too.

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      Hello, hello, 8 years ago from London, UK

      A really impressive hub. A lot of good answers to every day occuring problems. Thank you.

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      entertianmentplus 8 years ago from United States

      Good advise thanks.

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      Ann Nonymous 8 years ago from Virginia

      Great advice on many subjects. And I, like you, look at these trials and the many others we face as an oppurtunity that God allowed for us in which we can grow!

      Good job, prasetio!

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      Ken R. Abell 8 years ago from ON THE ROAD

      Lots of wisdom here. Thank you.

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      Pamela Oglesby 8 years ago from United States

      Prasetio, Great suggestions for a happier life. Good hub.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks "Quill" I am glad you liked this information and thank you for supporting this hub. I hope we can be wise person...amen

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      "Quill" 8 years ago

      Great advice, well done and know the Father loves you..


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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you Darlene. I always accepted here. I really appreciate your comment. I hope you always health. Take care!

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thank you Ten Blogger for stopping by. I hope a "little" from me useful for us.

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      prasetio30 8 years ago from malang-indonesia

      Thanks POP for supporting this hub. I hope we can be wise person in solving the problem. Have a nice day.

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      Darlene Sabella 8 years ago from Hello, my name is Toast and Jam, I live in the forest with my dog named Sam ...

      You always write about important subjects, I like your logic, and wise advise, great hub. I loved it...

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      Ten Blogger 8 years ago

      all great advice on very interesting topics.. Good one !

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      breakfastpop 8 years ago

      Very wise advice.


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