Location...somewhere atlantic coast-ish. New England feel family comedy/drama. Family gathering. 30-ish brother unknowingly meets other brother's fiancee at coffee shop. They are attracted to each other. Both return separately to family home and discover true identies. Fall in love. Many other family sub plots. Huge farmhouse kitchen centers activities. Has feel of "THe Family Stone." Only other detail I remember is at end titles, female singer & band playing outdoors at wedding(?) Can't remember any actor specifically, unfortunately. Anyone who can put me out of my misery...thanks!