Help Me Out Here...Are White Men Really Like That...?

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    fierycjposted 9 years ago

    I mean, really? I mentioned my baby cousin (not really a baby) is with me, and she's been watching these awfully corny movies with Jennifer Aniston and Matthew McConaughey and stuff (She wont watching any of mine, she's stubborn) in be honest with you, I mean, to be perfectly honest with you - those kinda movies make me wanna PUKE my guts out!!!!

    Now, here's what I'm talking about - I'm talking about those kinda  movies, where they always paint white guys to be these wimps, who cant stand up to any woman, and who always stutter like madmen whenever they meet a girl they like...guys who would obsess over a girl in a really terrifically pathetic way and all...I cant even explain it...and another thing is, white women in the movies are way smarter and tougher than white men, I mean, like a gazillion times stronger and smarter...both emotionally and psychologically and all...Here's in this movie (Gawd! I hate my cousin, lol) where the girl just sits her boyfriend down, and tells him, that he's not adventurous, and that he's not 'fiery' or passionate about anything (Which really means, he aint any good in the hay, cos in the next scene, she's doing crazy 'acrobatics' with some muscle-bound trainer) and then she dumps him, she easily moves on with her life, and goes in this wild wuchmacallit - sexual-liberation spree, where she 'discovers' herself and all that bull...then my homeboy here, wallows in self-pity and wont even take a bath, or go to work or do anything, just sit at home, watching old romantic movies and listening to 70s blues and crying his eyes out! GAWD, SIIIIIIIIICCCCCCCCKKKKKKKEEEEENNNNIIIINNNNGGG!!!! and their best friends are always trying to get them to go out, but they wont budge, and when they eventually do, they never wanna date anyone else, even if a really gorgeous girl hits on them at the club, they start telling the girl about how wonderful their ex was, GEEZ!!!

    Another thing else, Like in this movie, right, this guy likes this girl right, but he doesnt have the minerals to say it, right, so keeps himself like the girl's best friend or something pathetic like that, but pay his friend to actually go out with the girl and piss her off, so she could like appreciate him more of something...and is this Jason Biggs guy, that guy is so pathetic in movies...Gawd, a disgrace to manhood! I know all white men cannot be like this, as I have some friends, and they're NO WAY LIKE THAT! But these friends of mine, have lived in Nigeria for long, so maybe thats different. However, Indulge, dont get sensitive or anything...Please, I seriously do not want to believe that most white men are like this...I mean, wimps, nervous,un-manly, and such klutz, especially when they're around gorgeous women and all...I mean, please TALK TO ME...Cos honestly, hollywood aint painting white-men in a positive light...doesnt that bother you guys, I know I would...

    1. Angel Of Love profile image66
      Angel Of Loveposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Those movies really apply only to some.

    2. tksensei profile image61
      tksenseiposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah, whatever happened to all the good movies about men beating and intimidating women then keeping them oppressed and fearful at home while the 'real' man goes out and frequents prostitutes so he can bring STDs home and force his domestic servant to contract them? They just don't make 'em like that anymore.  roll

      1. Maddie Ruud profile image76
        Maddie Ruudposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        Everyone cool it.

        Fiery, I've seen you get offended over racial references before, so I'm sure you can understand why other people might feel sensitive.

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    badcompany99posted 9 years ago

    Get real hot guy if there is a wimp about it's you and it's you watching all that crap not me. I am deff no wimp and no women outfoxes me as I proved to that fake GoodfriendamI, seen her about lately have ya ????

    I kinda recall you were sucked in by her crap, I saw her facade right away, go blow yer fire out big guy smile

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    CabinGirlposted 9 years ago

    Lol you tell him Captain !

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    rednckwmnposted 9 years ago

    fiery? you know i luv ya right? seriously? those movies are madevfor teenage girls cuz they have daddies money, and they think its romantic er whatever. i dont watch em..... the whole white thing.... fugedaabout it  smile

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      badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      I think Fiery actually is the alter-ego of a teenage girl smile

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 9 years ago

    would you like it if people asked the same question of black men, i think not,,,,,

    Men are men in my opinion, never even notice their colour so why do you???

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      rednckwmnposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      its only racist if you say black....

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        badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

        I think not ! His actual question is Racist !

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          \Brenda Scullyposted 9 years agoin reply to this

          hia question is the most racist comment i have seen in a long long time, and i don't understand why it is even posted.  it is of course racist if anyone mentions any colour in a derogeratory manner... even if it is done in jest, it is not funny
             All Men Are Lovely isn't that right bad company

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            badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

            Of course, the fact my friend even posted this is beyond me.

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            fierycjposted 9 years agoin reply to this

            Take a chill dont know never, chill...big_smile

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              badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

              I know this post is totally racist !

      2. Mrvoodoo profile image62
        Mrvoodooposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        I got ya sarcasm DM. smile

        And fiery what about Snatch and Lock-Stock and Reservoir Dogs, etc. they be white guys too. smile (but of course it's all just movies).

        * p.s. Not all black dudes be bad ass, anyone remember 'Dwayne Dibley?' big_smile

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 9 years ago

    I think you've been watching too many "chic flics." Yes a certain type of women finds this attractive in a man. Or finds the situation attractive. But I don't believe it is race-based.

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    fierycjposted 9 years ago

    @badcom...what a sensitive cousin is tougher than I am, no arguments there..SHE GOT ME! smile

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      badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Ok lets turn it around, if I popped on here and posted a thread saying all Black Guys are wimps how quickly do you think it would take Maddie Rudd to ban me. It's one rule for one and a different for the other, the question is racist !

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        fierycjposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        You're too sensitive...this is for laughs, I find all this hilarious...I find you hilarious...even more, so, these

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        \Brenda Scullyposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        i totally agree so why is this post still up

  8. SweetiePie profile image84
    SweetiePieposted 9 years ago

    Yikes I do not see his question as racist at all.  He was just making an observation about movies, which are not based on reality anyway.

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      badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Are white men all wimps you don't see as being racist, ok I will help you. All white men is for a start one race, its also stating your colour, you are joking yeah ?

      1. SweetiePie profile image84
        SweetiePieposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        Personally I do not go around talking about a person's race, but at the same time I am not upset if someone else does.  Maybe they just do not really know any better you see, and do not realize it may be offensive.  I just see this thread as going in a negative direction, and not one fiery intended.  We can all calm down a bit here.

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      fierycjposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Did i ever say you're one of the smartest woman in hubpages...well, you are...easy-going, not so

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    Davinagirl3posted 9 years ago

    These movies are based on a romantic story.  Most of them are hokey, and... oh so corny.  The ones I really hate are the ones where a small piece of miscommunication leads to mayhem.  No one is really like that.  Thank God, no one is really like that.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 9 years ago

    I agree with BadCompany99 that there is a double standard here and most other places.

    Other races are allowed to decry and insult white people as seen in this topic. Women can complain and write about men in ways men would never be able to about women.

    I have never understood it and never agreed with it, but I see it happening in the media every day.

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      badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks Nelle because it is happening way too much, we get totally hammered if we say anything at all yet this is allowed to be posted on hubs. Maddie sort it out, this is the most racist post I have seen on here !

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 9 years ago

    now i know why i don't come in the forums very often, my god i can't believe it .....

    imagine if we put a question up about a black guy,,,,,, all hell would let loose in two solid minutes, well it would in England that is for sure

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      badcompany99posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Brenda I totally agree, good god you cant even say that in the Uk at all you would be arrested actually !

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        \Brenda Scullyposted 9 years agoin reply to this

        you would lose your job actually too if you even said any one unkind thing about any one else, it seems o.k. now to be horrible and say whatever you like about white people...... we have feelings too.....

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 9 years ago

    Brenda, It would in the US as well.

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    fierycjposted 9 years ago

    he he he This is hilarious...all i said, was I observed something in movies...and i said, is this how they are...i didnt say, this is how they are, again I said---IS THIS HOW THEY ARE? Gawd, and you all read and understand English, really? English is like my second language for heaven's sake! lol

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