I just need advice!
I am going through the same thing presently, I recently received a call from my maybe father after 38 years and he told me stuff that made me think, WOW! I just don't understand and I don't have any one to talk to that understand what I am going through or how I am feeling. I am so sick of hearing "it's going to be okay". Do it get better?
It always gets better, you need to be positive.
You are the master/ mistress of your life and you make your choices, decisions based on rational derivations.
Your would have been father .. where was he for 38 years and why now....
keep asking the questions
write down your thought on how you feel how you need to act ..
leave it for a day or two come back and see if it makes sense.
Don't get worried or troubled by what you did not do!!
Cheer up! Life is good you ca make it what ever you want it to be...
Well I can't say it will get better because I don't know what you need to get better from. If you want to contact me and talk about it I'm here for you. And if someone tell you again that it's going to be okay you ask them to explain why. I'm like you I can't stand it when someone says it's going to be okay knowing good and well they don't have a clue. I'd rather someone say ' you want to talk about it?'
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