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What is exactly a man wants from a woman without the sexual context.

  1. family2010 profile image60
    family2010posted 6 years ago

    What is exactly a man wants from a woman without the sexual context.

    I am looking for an answer, this might be a very vague question but I have tried to narrow it down to exclude the intimacy desires.

  2. ibbarkingmad profile image84
    ibbarkingmadposted 6 years ago

    Well, that really depends on the guy. I will be honest, I know there are a lot of guys who don't really think beyond sex. Personally, I wanted a best friend. My wife and I talk about everything. We had a 2 year relationship without sex (kissing and all that but no sex) before we got married. I think the desire to court without sex is important because it takes that distraction off of the table and focuses on the actual relationship part of the equation. Granted, now that we are married the sex adds a level of intimacy that is wonderful, but it isn't the end all. So to sum up what I took forever to say, I would say any guy with a brain in his head is looking for a best friend. Someone he can talk with and be with who completes him. You don't have to have exactly the same interests and stuff, but friends do have common ground. I hope that answers your question.

  3. Ruchi Urvashi profile image71
    Ruchi Urvashiposted 6 years ago

    A man is looking for good, healthy partner who is able to share joys and happiness. The partner who thinks and speak positively and be natural in daily walk of life.

  4. NiaLee profile image61
    NiaLeeposted 6 years ago

    a buddy, another human to exchange, comfort, support, intelligence of his person and life in general...more. I always had a problem with people thinking that man woman relationship has to contain some desire, some sexual attraction even thought they are not expressed or fulfilled. Sometimes it is true but they are cases where it has no place and we all need to work on those.
    Now, often, we are friends with guys and end up realize they desire us, or used to...ladies too!
    It is life. I have to confess that I was faced with desire from my buddies many times and when I realized it.changed the relationship because I am not the kind of friend that will stay around in that case if the man is in a relationship and I am too... or one or the other.

  5. carolp profile image80
    carolpposted 6 years ago

    What a man wants from a woman is loyalty, having a woman at home when the man comes home. A woman who prepares a warm meal or prepare something for dinner when a man comes home. A woman to talk with, open up and feel secure, share his dreams and plans, to have a home with a woman who is a good wife, a good friend, a good mother, a good partner to make a stable happy home.

  6. Borsia profile image45
    Borsiaposted 6 years ago

    For me I want someone who has, or is willing to learn, the same interests.
    She doesn't have to like everything but the things that are big to me, like photography, she should at least have some interest in. She might just like being a model, that works.
    It helps of she also like fishing, swimming and snorkeling and such.
    She has to be a good traveler and, strange as it might sound, I like women who are physically strong, helps in the traveling part.
    I'm willing to do the same for her and learn about her interests but it helps if we start off sharing some.
    Of course she does have to be a great lover and she has to be attractive, at least to me.
    It is a bit harder given cultural and language differences but all of that can be overcome.