What to do with a troubled teen who doesn't want to be home?
Has anybody gone thru this situation?
Get them counseling. Teen years are tough enough. Let the therapist get to the bottom of the teens anger.
I dislike when people think counseling solves everything.....it doesn't
Your wrong....because now the teen thinks he or she has a problem when in reality all they have....is just being a teen
We have no way of assuming that from this question. If they want to call the shots? Let them get a job and support themselves. I was 18 once and thought I knew it all. I was VERY SERIOUSLY WRONG!!
well you were an unintelligent 18 year old......you have to give them space...and abandoning them makes the parents the bad ones....be tough and slap them up but don't abandon them.....they are going through a short phase.....
Are you saying the teen should be able to do their own thing? Under their parents roof?
to a certain extent....give them space....if someone invades that space it'll be world war 3
Yes, I was as most 18 year olds are. The comments you are making are making me wonder your age? 18 or 19? Just like I was told, You have a lot of living and learning to do my friend. Respect your parents by all means. You will not have them forever.
You see you are changing the subject.....who cares about my age...if i make an intelligent argument.....you counter instead of changing the subject....i probably respect my parent more than you do.
Now you are showing your age wasting my time. I would suggest being a parent before giving parental advice.
I know a lot about this stuff...and I can't disagree more with your view....
Agree to disagree. By the way I'm a Psychologist.
Without knowing the age, gender, and reason for labeling the teen as "troubled" my advice would be to talk with the teen and ask him or her why he or she does not want to be at home. Teen years are filled with difficult transitions, self identity, self awareness, peer pressure, and finding independence. Most teens who act out are struggling with the above. However, this is usually a good sign for parents because it is lets them know they need help. Finding a good councelor that the teen feels comfortable talking to would be ideal. However, if the teen refuses to speak with one, this is of little help. Maybe there is a family member, or family friend the teen feels comfortable speaking with. The point is to get the Teen to talk and be prepared to listen not shut them off because you do not like what they say.
My friend is having this problem now. Her son doesn't want to be at home because he wants to be with his "gang" So, my friend had to agree everything he ask for in order for him to come back home everyday. My opinion, she is spoiling him. She tried to talk to him but he refused to listen and rebuked her. Her son is totally a let down. I would have tied both his hand and feet or ground him at home and stop schooling since he hated school so much.
As a person who recently went threw this(about 4 years ago), i know the feeling of having personal issues and not wanting to be home.
It honestly depends on the situation. Is there yelling? Privacy for the teen? Nagging?Do they get lonely and simply need friends so they leave?Is there drinking at home? Do they do drugs? There could be a whole list of reasons why.
I can only speak on a personal level but when i had this issue it was because i didn't feel i had the space i wanted. I wanted my personal space. The house felt cramped and uncomfortable. I didn't like the people at my house(my family) so every chance i could get, i left.
by Audrey Selig 6 years ago
As a parent what do you do when your teen hangs out with a troubled friend? Drugs. Alcohol UnstablePlease help with answers to be part of a hub on this issue.
by ngureco 9 years ago
The Terrible Teen YearsYour Child Who Once Used To Listen To You Can Now Dare Point You Are Wrong And He Is Right. Why?
by ahorseback 5 years ago
Doesn't all the blame begin .......and end at home ?We like to throw daggers in our new American culture ,daggers of the blame game , We blame guns , we blame the media , we blame congress and we blame the president ! Pick an issue any issue and look to all the ...
by lrohner 3 years ago
My son is 19 going on 10. Do teen boys ever grow up???I've been a single mom 4ever, have successfully raised two girls, and yet my 19 year old son leaves me perplexed. Advice puleeze?
|HubPages Device ID|
|Login||This is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.|
|HubPages Google Analytics|
|HubPages Traffic Pixel|
|Google Hosted Libraries|
|Google AdSense Host API|
|Conversion Tracking Pixels|
|Author Google Analytics|
|Amazon Tracking Pixel|