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  1. Capci profile image61
    Capciposted 14 years ago

    How do the relationships between husband & wife be good.

    1. Black Lilly profile image59
      Black Lillyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      1. Make the right choice of husband/wife;
      2. Respect your choice;
      3. Understand that nobody is perfect;
      4. Know what you want.

      1. Cagsil profile image72
        Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

        Hey Black Lilly, can I lend some advice? big_smile

        1. Know what you want.
        2. Understand that nobody is perfect.
        3. Make the right choice of husband/wife.
        4. Respect your choice.

        Just a thought. lol

        1. Black Lilly profile image59
          Black Lillyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          oops... that was random order - thanks for grouping big_smile

          1. Cagsil profile image72
            Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            No problem. lol

    2. Cagsil profile image72
      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Simple: (1) Trust 100% (2) Honesty and (3) Communication.

      It's most likely that if you have a couple and they get married, then if their relationship was built on friendship first, then it shall be able to last through anything.

      If their relationship didn't have a friendship before it started, then it's likely to end up in divorce court, within about 10 years.

      Just a thought. big_smile

  2. jacobkuttyta profile image46
    jacobkuttytaposted 14 years ago

    Love each other
    Respect each other

  3. cheaptrick profile image72
    cheaptrickposted 14 years ago

    Arguing fairly seems fundamental.Never demean your spouse.My dad gave my this advise at my wedding many many years ago unfortunately her dad didn't give her the same advise and the marriage ended.Afterwords he told me"In marriage you can be right or you can be happy so don't disagree unless its Really important",makes sense to me.If I ever find a woman who can Tolerate me I will remember his advise,His marriage lasted fifty two years and was full of joy and passion till the day he died.

  4. earnestshub profile image80
    earnestshubposted 14 years ago

    Separate lives is the answer, no heavy dependency. smile

  5. terrowhite profile image57
    terrowhiteposted 14 years ago

    Of course by mutual trust and understanding. These two factors are the foundation of nay relationship. smile

  6. fishtiger58 profile image68
    fishtiger58posted 14 years ago

    Like each other when you are fully clothed. If the relationship is based on sex or money than you are doomed.

    1. lorlie6 profile image74
      lorlie6posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I agree with fishtiger58, liking your partner is fundamental, and often is more critical than loving them.

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    ralwusposted 14 years ago

    It is almost impossible for some time after the honey moon is over, persevere and you will succeed.

  8. K Partin profile image61
    K Partinposted 14 years ago

    Allot of give and take, for 39 years! She does her things, I do my things, and then we do things together. Works great... smile

  9. prettydarkhorse profile image55
    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    give them space -- to fully enjoy their hobbies, with their friends,  support them. give loyalty and respect plus love them with all your heart too

    1. K Partin profile image61
      K Partinposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Ditto that! smile

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    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago


  11. Dale Mazurek profile image62
    Dale Mazurekposted 14 years ago

    If I had to pick just one thing it would be that you should never go to bed angry at one another.

    My wife and I promised each other that on our wedding day and always stuck by it and we are very happily married after 21 years,

    1. Lady_E profile image64
      Lady_Eposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      That's really lovely.

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    Linda Myshrallposted 14 years ago

    Pick someone who shares your values. 
    Lighten up. 
    Fight fairly. 
    Like each other.
    Be reliable. 
    Delete the "D" word from your vocabulary.

  13. Jane@CM profile image61
    Jane@CMposted 14 years ago

    21 years of marriage - lots of love, hard work, respect, give and take...there are a multitude of things that make it work, don't ever think it will be easy 100% of the time.


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