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Is being an over nice person a bad trait?

  1. Jeanna218 profile image79
    Jeanna218posted 10 months ago

    Is being an over nice person a bad trait?

    I try to give people respect and help. It almost seems like I am the only one left around me that goes the extra mile

  2. Wesman Todd Shaw profile image97
    Wesman Todd Shawposted 10 months ago

    You have to learn to assert yourself insofar as your own interests go. Be respectful, yes, but assert your own desires as the primary concern.

  3. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 10 months ago

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    A trait is only bad if (you) are unhappy with what it brings you.
    When we change our circumstances change.
    Know yourself, Love yourself, Trust yourself!
    Some people bend over backwards to be "nice" because they're afraid of being disliked. However you will never really feel happy or free until you can just (be yourself).
    Last but not least respect like (trust) should be (earned). Don't feel obligated to respect everyone! Allow them to earn it.
    I'm not saying you have to be rude just make sure to look out for (your) best interest. No one else is responsible for doing so.
    Being a doormat invites people to walk on you. If you're not being respected it's because you don't command it or you're willing to settle for not having it.
    You get to (choose) who you spend your time with.
    Choose wisely!

    1. Jeanna218 profile image79
      Jeanna218posted 10 months agoin reply to this

      Great advice!

 
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