The never ending battle of good girls vs. bad girls. Taking a poll now with your votes for Bad Girls or Good girls. Bad Good The nice guys say the like nice girls and don't want to deal with ego driven, bossy women. But, the nice girls out there observe that guys date girls who they are afraid of; i.e. "I have to go or my girlfriend will get mad." They seem to have a boss that they can get in trouble from. Opinions wanted to find out the truth. Do nice girls stand a chance in the dating game? Vice versa as well (nice guys)
I feel many younger men prefer the bad girls and the older men prefer the good girls most of the time,the reason is younger men are more interested in sex then a relationship and older men are more interested in a good partner and a relationship.This is not how all men young or old feels,but I feel safe to say this is the majority.
The desire for an absolute this works everytime answer is not possible. The true answer to your question is that we all want a "someone" as unique and different as our mental images of our perfect matches are.
For me personally I want a publically "nice" woman that is naughty when we are alone. A woman not afraid of life and not closed off to new ideas and new things. What I don't want is a "bad" woman in the sense of a user, lier, manipulator, cheater or abuser.
Being a "bad-girl" in the sense of being an unconventional sometimes non-follower type that brings excitement and spontenaity to the relationship is the positive connotation to this term. As the boring and never compromising prude is the negavtive connotation to the "nice" girl concept.
The bottom line is there are good and bad in all of us in varying measures, the trick is finding the correct mixture that compliments our own unique mixture.
That's a tricky question... and could possibly be worded a bit differently. I'm married now and got what I wanted, lol... but I think for me, at least... I prefer a girl who is MOSTLY nice but definitly has her "bad" side.
I think we may have a different definition of "bad", though... I think of it more in terms of "naughty", or at least not a goody-two-shoes, prude, stick in the mud, etc. But that's not the same as "mean".
I wouldn't tolerate a flat-out B-word, nor do I know many guys that would. It's exhausting and just makes life miserable. It's one thing to have a spine and to have your opinions, but to be a you-know-what just for the sake of it, why?
I think younger men may want a bad girl simply because of what he assumes she will do. As he ages, his wants and needs will change. For most older and wiser men, the play will be out of him and he will lean towards a good girl;someone he can take home to mommy. However, some men luck out and get a good girl in the boardroom and a bad girl in the bedroom.
What you are really asking is: Are there more bad guys than good guys... being good deals with the heart, no matter the weakness of the flesh that may make one unreasonable. Choosing a bad girl or a nice girl all depends on character
hmm hard to say but I would say nice girls are preferred when it comes to a long term relationship. I mean if she was bad when you first met her in a club or a bar chances are she won't change much even in a relationship. Same counts for men who are trying to pick up girls by playing a "bad guy" that's just more a "short-term focused strategy" .
When I was 15 my grandmother shocked my sister and I by telling us "Always present yourself as a lady to the world, but be a whore in bed". We turned to look at each other to check if we had both heard correctly. This meant never leave the house looking frumpy, get your hair done, nails done, look clean and well taken care of, never curse in public or act inappropriately and never discuss sex or politics in mixed company.
I am a good girl with a "bad girl" side. This has worked great for me in my life. I strongly advise it.
Depends on what I'm looking for at the time: if I'm looking for a long term relationship with a girl, more than likely she'd be a good girl.
If I want something more casual and fun: then I'd go with the bad girl route. Bad girls can be more fun, in small doses at least, but it's the good girl you want in the long run as what starts as fun can quickly become drama.
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