The right time to make a move when in a date

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   rosariosblogposted 13 years ago

   unspoken signals, body language, awkward silences

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   Zubair Ahmedposted 13 years ago

   Hi rosariosblog,
   
   Please elaborate what move when in a date?  Are you talking about walking off because the date your on is simply time waste or are you talking about jumping over and kissing the person?

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      rosariosblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      I mean the latter Zubair.  I don't mean walking off and leaving.  I also mean, what are the signs that your date is ready and will allow your advances to advance.

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         paradigmsearchposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         You Will Just Know!!! Trust me on this.

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            6 String Veteranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            LOL.

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   paradigmsearchposted 13 years ago

   There is no such thing as “Making a move.”
   
   Leastwise, there shouldn’t be.
   
   It just happens naturally.

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      rosariosblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Paradigmasearch, I agree it happens naturally.  "Talking" also happens naturally but we still have a system of writing where we can rephrase things a little better.

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      6 String Veteranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      @ paradigmsearch, there certainly is such a thing a 'making moves'. It's an art and has been for thousands of years. The hitch--and a major hitch it is--is that some are naturals at it and others are clumsy and ineffective.
      
      I happen to fall in the latter group but have known many a 'smooth operator'. Such 'masters of move' make advancements that would quickly result in a hard slap for the lesser man. For them, however, it is simply a playful game. From time to time these fellows can be seen running out of a house or down a boulevard with no shirt or shoes...but such trivialities are a small price to pay in the life of a Player.

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   camloposted 13 years ago

   This may sound cliché, well, it is, actually. But, according to my experience, it's usually that moment when your eyes lock.

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      rosariosblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Yes.  But sometimes it is good to keep some tension building before something happens, this could actually make the actual experience more satisfying.

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         lyndreposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         I am moving in to kiss those ruby petals.Is a cyber slap coming my way?

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            rosariosblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            They are rose petals, lyndre!  Oh you can kiss them anytime you like, they're there 24/7 for you!  Who would want to slap such a cute looking foot anyway?

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      6 String Veteranposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      @ camlo...yeah, and then you realize there's a booger in her nose. It happened to me. Hey, the gal was still pretty and all...there was just a booger in her left nostril.

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         rosariosblogposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            So how did you get through that episode?

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   paradigmsearchposted 13 years ago

   And not all silences are “awkward”…

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   paradigmsearchposted 13 years ago

   And no means no.

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