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Finding love vs Love Happens ?

  1. whizcreed profile image68
    whizcreedposted 6 years ago

    Finding love vs Love Happens ?

    Which approach do you believe in and why?

    Do you think that true love can be found or you know that love can only happen on its own.

    Do share your experience.


  2. McQueen3486 profile image60
    McQueen3486posted 6 years ago

    I think you could technically argue both. In my experience, I have had better luck with men that I have "stumbled" into, as opposed to those I sought after. Some argue that the " If you're not looking for it, then it happens" theory is preposterous, but it seemed to have worked for me, in most respects. I think looking for love can be a disadvantage, specifically because you have your guard up more, and your principles and standards can be set at too high of level. So, when you meet someone, you might automatically not give them a second glance, not knowing if that person could've been right for you. If you let it happen, you get to know the person on a more basic level, and can make a natural decision for yourself. So, both methods can coexist, I believe, but I am more of a believe of love happening. I believe everything happens for a reason, and if you're meant to be with someone, then you will cross paths with them.

  3. carolp profile image80
    carolpposted 6 years ago

    I found my true love as i went with a group of friends spending night life and my true love was introduced to me. For the first time as our eyes met, i knew from that moment that i love him and love happens on its own.
    I believe true can be found anywhere at any time, it is only making a step into, a try, courage.
    An spontan meeting and spontan finding and happening of love experienced by 2 human being, the first true love is everlasting.

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    reeltaulkposted 6 years ago

    If you truly believe in something, whatever...... anything!  It tends to make its way into your life when you need it the most.  Like any tool, armour or asset..... Love, just as well as Happiness will make its way into your life in it's most potent form.  So all you really have to do is be ready and aware of what is taking place/happening/coming to fruition.  Well that is only if you believe.  If you don't believe in whatever in it's purest form, you will receive exactly whatever you believe in whether randomly or at your convenience

  5. faria_lupin profile image72
    faria_lupinposted 6 years ago

    love happens......you can't decide whether you will fall in love or not.
    whenever you feel that someone's here very near not too far from you,you can find the right person you want to, you never know when you'll feel that.
    i have found Mr. right
    i felt the same way what you are going through now,it happens.
    you know i decided not to 'fall in love', for me 'Fall in Love' meant to fall in love like you were falling down from the upstairs and when you fell,there was nothing to hold you tight,but now i have found the love of my life, i am enjoying my life...full of happiness. but one thing for sure try to find out whether it is love.listen to your heart and above all time will say what is right for you.....

  6. juiwei2000 profile image60
    juiwei2000posted 6 years ago

    It depends on people and circumstances, take extreme case, if you are in the military where just about everybody is a guy, then the chance for love finding a man is slimmer, but for female soldier on the other hand, it would be the opposite way around.  But if you work in a woman magazine, then there is a slight chance for love to find the woman in the work place, where for man working in woman magazine, the chance for love finding him in work place, would greatly increase (unless he is gay)

    In term of true love, I never believe in Love, so I never take much priority in it.  I met more then one girl who could be the one, but I choose to let it go, due to various form of reason, believing it is the right choice.  It isn't a pleasent decision to make, but I believe it is the right choice and if I am to do over, I'll do the same thing.

  7. hildred profile image78
    hildredposted 6 years ago

    I would say both and neither at the same time. You always hear an argument for one or the other ("You won't find a partner just sitting around at home" vs "Don't think too much about it and just let what will be will be"), but in the end I believe life is all chance anyway so it doesn't really matter. In the end, I just say do whichever makes you feel more at ease: if that means being "proactive" and taking life into your hands and looking for it, then do that - if it means just relaxing and letting chance come to you, then do that. Sounds like a cop out, but really, it's reality.

  8. Ana Teixeira profile image83
    Ana Teixeiraposted 6 years ago

    love just happens. You cant look for love because love is not MADE. you can't force it into someone. you can't force yourself to love someone. so i guess.. yeah.. love just happens