If you caught your spouse cheating again, would you give them a third chance?

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   Kotti KaDottiposted 14 years ago

   If you caught your spouse cheating again, would you give them a third chance?

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   stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

   Absolutely not.  You've 'caught' them three time out of how many times?  Once may have been a 'mistake', which they could have learned from.  Second time, they knew not to do it.  If you don't leave you have to accept that the other person is going to continue to cheat you - Unless you're planning to both have some kind of 'open' relationship,  you will end up feeling very embarrassed and undignified if you stay with your partner.

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   rosey2k9posted 14 years ago

   Most definately not because there would be no trust in the relationship and you would not be happy in the relationship. Without trust what would your relationship have? Imagine giving your cheating spouse a third chance, that would be like laying down and letting your spouse trample all over you. If somebody in a relationship cheats then they are not totally commited to you or the relationship and you should get out sooner rather than later, move on and get happiness from somebody who won't cheat on you or betray you in anyway.

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   ryltonyposted 14 years ago

   Nope.  If they were lucky enough to get a second chance, they'd definitely be history if they cheated again.  That's a big if because I generally have a no tolerance rule.

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   Harmax123posted 14 years ago

   I wouldn't even give them a second chance, if they truly loved me they wouldn't do it even once.

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   Dark knight ridesposted 14 years ago

   There wouldn't be a third chance. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice and I'm gone. Some say forgive and forget, and I'm all for forgiving. But if someone is going to cheat once, the chances are they will cheat again. And again. If it upsets you, then forgive, and walk away.

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   darkprincessposted 14 years ago

   not a chance in this world..........even after the first time i wouldnt go back for the 2nd or third time...........

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   Betty Reidposted 14 years ago

   No.  I'd probably leave after the first time.

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