(for men) Would it turn you off if a girl showed a little liking to you?
Say for example, you are going a date, online or offline, and you like the girl. You've been exchanging emails, messages, etc, for a quite while, and then the girl give you a little sign of liking to you. How would you take it? Would it turn you off? Would you not think that the girl is too easy to get? Or do you like it too?
Men want to be liked and desired as much as women do!
It's a myth that guys enjoy being rejected, pushed away, or ignored. Imainge yourself leaning in to kiss someone and they turned their face away or pushed you back. Would that excite you? Turn you on? Not likely. Now a days "the chase" is often considered "harassment". Today's men want to be met half way.
The only time being "too easy" is an issue is if the person you like (doesn't like you). Then there is a chance they might take advantage of you. However if they really like you then they will be "relieved" that the feeling is mutual. Knowing where you stand is always a good thing.
I may be old fashioned or over complicated but why would I ever be turned off by a woman I asked on a date when she shows signs of liking me ? I don't get it. I would be thrilled, whether a relationship develops or not. What's wrong with being nice to someone who asked you out anyway? As for "easy to get, there is no such thing unless the woman is drunk or high in which case thanks but no thanks.
Guys or boys I should say, who are turned off by you showing your feelings are a complete waste your time. I say live with abandonment and you will end up with the same. What you put out you will attract. Be real and be yourself all the time. Leave the guessing and the games for the people who have lots of time to waste in their life. Regard your time as precious and the right man will regard your time as precious too. Remember always that YOU are the catch. There are a million guys who have everything you want in a man you just have to know you have everything a man wants in a women and the rest is magnetic…
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